Posted 6/30/2009 1:42 PM CDT on shreveporttimes.com
MAKING CHANGES - Starts with the simple thoughts to do so. if its people who are negative and show no connectivity unto "hope", have a dis interest in innovation, and seem to delight in smashing ideas. -then it is certainly time to change from such circles, but before doing so, try to show such ones the beauty of hope within themselves, if by no other means, than a simple compliment of a quality within them, they may have dis acknowledge, or feel no one recogonizes.
If another has a put down comment about how another invest themselves in learning, If another has a put down comment about one seeking to speak correctly, and if another has negative comments because one choose a career path over a party mentality. then is it time to change, and find like minded people - it may even benefit to ask such ones, of their desires, and their aims. yet, bid them well, if their goals still show no harmony.
If you excel in education, and challenge the self to be the best in your pursuits, be it classroom or work, and other always have something negative to say. - Then its time to make a change, and extract such ones from your daily lives. If before such extraction, it may benefit both, to simply ask, what are the aspirations of such ones hold for themselves.
If you like to explore dreams, and design ideas, and utilize creativity, and others, put you down for it,- then it is time to make a change, and find people who have visionary ideas, who embrace the pursuit of creative learning and growing within embracing the challenging fields of expertise, to learn more and prepare to do more. Then find people who also aspire to find ways to contribute to life. If before such extraction, it may benefit both, to simply ask, what are the aspirations of such ones hold for themselves.
Are you the type who will pick up a piece of trash paper from a neighbors yards, or remove the trash from the curbside in front of your home, then you not only serve yourself well, you make good , the efforts to support home and community.
Are you the type of person, the children in the community, enjoy and glow with delight to speak to you, and hear you call their name in your greet of them- Then you have made a good impression with the youth, and may well offer them positive feedback, to enhance their sense of self and their connection as being an acknowledged person in the community.
If you see the young people doing mischief, do you close your doors and try to ignore it, or will you address it to their parents when you see them. if you can't, then would that indicate that maybe you may seek to build a better relationships with your neighbors, to foster goodwill and community spirit.
What changes do you care to see? What changes will you make effort to engage? May well give you more understanding within your sphere of associates as well as your community.
WHAT DO YOU WANT ??
in years to come how do you want to remember your community, how do you want to remember your neighborhood? Do you think back to happier times ? do you think back to times when people spoke to one another ? do you think back to time, people smiled and waved to one another ?
Then ask simply, why is it not so Today in the communities of America ?
What change do you see- could it be simply, the change to not wait for others to speak, but to speak unto others, could it be, the simple effort you give - to smile, you can never know that it may pass unto another and inspire likewise in many throughout the day, as they share it with another, one by one by one by one...
Would it truly hurt to say "good morning" ? Would it truly take anything from you, to ask smile a greeting to people you pass during the days of your life ?
Would it diminish your life that much, to enage others in conversation when you are out shopping or just viewing the sights of the city.
Would it cause you any loss, to simply "wish another a happy day"..
In the morning when you awaken, do you greet family members, or do you just pass each other, as if you take it for granted that both of you are alive today, only by the grace of Gods will.
Would it truly be such a disaster to ask your mate how their day is ?
When you think love is gone and the relationships has stagnated - have you considered to express kindness and find the small things to express appreciation about. When you met, you found it easy, why have you let it become so hard to do ?
Have you told the mate, your kids or your family members lately, how beautiful you find them to be, have you even looked for something to appreciate about them.
When you call and talk to your family member of your troubles, or tell your mate, or your friend, would it really hurt you, to tell them "thank you", and express how much you appreciate them for simply listening to you, and let them know how much you feel blessed, to have someone who simply cared to listen.
Would you give a stranger, that extra penny in the store, when they come up short? if so, and if yes, then would you be as kind to a family member without beating them over the head about it ?
Imagine... the small things we can change in the course of a day, that not only change and make our lives better, we have no ideas how much if can mean to those we live with, those we pass in the course of a day, those we work with, and even those we may never see again in the course of our lives.
Do we make life hard, by the anguish we carry, and the apathey we convey ? do we live with the sense of hope we are taught on Sunday Morning all across this nation, do we seek the good will, the teaching ask of us, in every word that is taught, when learning of the words put forth in the bible teaching we engage. do we have even the faith of the mustard seed, which is determined to grow.
Can we be like that rose- which endures the winters, and stand within the heat, it delights in the rain, and embraces the breezes, and flexes with the blowing wind, simply, to show and share the beauty it is, and it ask of us nothing, but to simply appreciate the nature of its existance.
have no contempt at your co workers efforts to do a job well, have no envy about your co workers who want to achieve more and do more, have no contempt at the co worker or team mate, who wants to take on new challenges, and find new ways to grow. don't fight them with anguish, arrogance, envy and purposeful distance as if to make them feel un cared for. Engage them, and seek to learn and share learning, engage them and seek to understand their goals, and their objectives. Understand, they are no less than you are - and they are simply an individual, who is seeking to reach higher.
Knock no one down to life yourself up, stand on no ones back as if to hold them down, so you can reach higher, but know, that the efforts of two or more, can achieve much great the results within the goals we engage.
When you wish others to do well, you affirm within yourself, the same for yourself- but when you wish ill for another, you create a circle of ill for yourself.
Words are many things, and each word evokes thoughts within others, be of patience to simply understand, before you make a judgments, and you may learn the meansing of words unto others, and expand the understanding unto yourself of what Words mean.
Speak no thing, which will linger in the minds of another, and diminish their spirit, if you criticize, offer a solution, offer and alternative, and offer up what of understanding you can, If you have chosen the act of criticize, then you should also choose the act to enlighten, share understanding, and convey the perspective, so that two may grow with a unity of understandings effort.. If you have not the patience for it, then, let what is silence be the choice you engage.
Shall we ... as complex as we are as people, learn to live with the simplicity of a blooming rose.
Making Changes..... We may then find the real beauty in the time, we are given simply to live and share in the world.
If another has a put down comment about how another invest themselves in learning, If another has a put down comment about one seeking to speak correctly, and if another has negative comments because one choose a career path over a party mentality. then is it time to change, and find like minded people - it may even benefit to ask such ones, of their desires, and their aims. yet, bid them well, if their goals still show no harmony.
If you excel in education, and challenge the self to be the best in your pursuits, be it classroom or work, and other always have something negative to say. - Then its time to make a change, and extract such ones from your daily lives. If before such extraction, it may benefit both, to simply ask, what are the aspirations of such ones hold for themselves.
If you like to explore dreams, and design ideas, and utilize creativity, and others, put you down for it,- then it is time to make a change, and find people who have visionary ideas, who embrace the pursuit of creative learning and growing within embracing the challenging fields of expertise, to learn more and prepare to do more. Then find people who also aspire to find ways to contribute to life. If before such extraction, it may benefit both, to simply ask, what are the aspirations of such ones hold for themselves.
Are you the type who will pick up a piece of trash paper from a neighbors yards, or remove the trash from the curbside in front of your home, then you not only serve yourself well, you make good , the efforts to support home and community.
Are you the type of person, the children in the community, enjoy and glow with delight to speak to you, and hear you call their name in your greet of them- Then you have made a good impression with the youth, and may well offer them positive feedback, to enhance their sense of self and their connection as being an acknowledged person in the community.
If you see the young people doing mischief, do you close your doors and try to ignore it, or will you address it to their parents when you see them. if you can't, then would that indicate that maybe you may seek to build a better relationships with your neighbors, to foster goodwill and community spirit.
What changes do you care to see? What changes will you make effort to engage? May well give you more understanding within your sphere of associates as well as your community.
WHAT DO YOU WANT ??
in years to come how do you want to remember your community, how do you want to remember your neighborhood? Do you think back to happier times ? do you think back to times when people spoke to one another ? do you think back to time, people smiled and waved to one another ?
Then ask simply, why is it not so Today in the communities of America ?
What change do you see- could it be simply, the change to not wait for others to speak, but to speak unto others, could it be, the simple effort you give - to smile, you can never know that it may pass unto another and inspire likewise in many throughout the day, as they share it with another, one by one by one by one...
Would it truly hurt to say "good morning" ? Would it truly take anything from you, to ask smile a greeting to people you pass during the days of your life ?
Would it diminish your life that much, to enage others in conversation when you are out shopping or just viewing the sights of the city.
Would it cause you any loss, to simply "wish another a happy day"..
In the morning when you awaken, do you greet family members, or do you just pass each other, as if you take it for granted that both of you are alive today, only by the grace of Gods will.
Would it truly be such a disaster to ask your mate how their day is ?
When you think love is gone and the relationships has stagnated - have you considered to express kindness and find the small things to express appreciation about. When you met, you found it easy, why have you let it become so hard to do ?
Have you told the mate, your kids or your family members lately, how beautiful you find them to be, have you even looked for something to appreciate about them.
When you call and talk to your family member of your troubles, or tell your mate, or your friend, would it really hurt you, to tell them "thank you", and express how much you appreciate them for simply listening to you, and let them know how much you feel blessed, to have someone who simply cared to listen.
Would you give a stranger, that extra penny in the store, when they come up short? if so, and if yes, then would you be as kind to a family member without beating them over the head about it ?
Imagine... the small things we can change in the course of a day, that not only change and make our lives better, we have no ideas how much if can mean to those we live with, those we pass in the course of a day, those we work with, and even those we may never see again in the course of our lives.
Do we make life hard, by the anguish we carry, and the apathey we convey ? do we live with the sense of hope we are taught on Sunday Morning all across this nation, do we seek the good will, the teaching ask of us, in every word that is taught, when learning of the words put forth in the bible teaching we engage. do we have even the faith of the mustard seed, which is determined to grow.
Can we be like that rose- which endures the winters, and stand within the heat, it delights in the rain, and embraces the breezes, and flexes with the blowing wind, simply, to show and share the beauty it is, and it ask of us nothing, but to simply appreciate the nature of its existance.
have no contempt at your co workers efforts to do a job well, have no envy about your co workers who want to achieve more and do more, have no contempt at the co worker or team mate, who wants to take on new challenges, and find new ways to grow. don't fight them with anguish, arrogance, envy and purposeful distance as if to make them feel un cared for. Engage them, and seek to learn and share learning, engage them and seek to understand their goals, and their objectives. Understand, they are no less than you are - and they are simply an individual, who is seeking to reach higher.
Knock no one down to life yourself up, stand on no ones back as if to hold them down, so you can reach higher, but know, that the efforts of two or more, can achieve much great the results within the goals we engage.
When you wish others to do well, you affirm within yourself, the same for yourself- but when you wish ill for another, you create a circle of ill for yourself.
Words are many things, and each word evokes thoughts within others, be of patience to simply understand, before you make a judgments, and you may learn the meansing of words unto others, and expand the understanding unto yourself of what Words mean.
Speak no thing, which will linger in the minds of another, and diminish their spirit, if you criticize, offer a solution, offer and alternative, and offer up what of understanding you can, If you have chosen the act of criticize, then you should also choose the act to enlighten, share understanding, and convey the perspective, so that two may grow with a unity of understandings effort.. If you have not the patience for it, then, let what is silence be the choice you engage.
Shall we ... as complex as we are as people, learn to live with the simplicity of a blooming rose.
Making Changes..... We may then find the real beauty in the time, we are given simply to live and share in the world.
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