Functional Family Planning

Understanding Prime years,and considering a concept of perspective. ....

if you consider that when one finishes school at 18 and do 4 years of college, they are around 22.5 yrs of age.. they have their choice of education gains.. of direction .. and the gained skill to manage her employment if needed.

but then she can take the time out to have her family structure created..
example:

if a woman has a baby at age 22.5 by the time she is 26 she can have
3 kids..

which means by the time she is 30 her youngest is 4.. and then
she can then be free do many things... and all kids are in pre-school and
above.. which gives her days free. she can either take a corporate position, pursue her masters degree, or higher, or many things which may be for her career choices.. and her family is at a age rage that can be managed without such closeness that a new born requires.

life has many systems... if we think or understand formulas that provide function and a nature of perspective about balance.... and
understand life processes.. and age frames.

but surely there can be many thoughts for and against this
.. but to see the logic in it .. it is functional for a woman who
wants a family but sill want to do things, be able to have a career if that's her choice..and not wait till later years ( 30 and so on )and such cause her to try compress herself with conflicting objectives... that cause her to be lost as to how much time to spend with the new babies or work..

22.5 is equal to the same age that one would graduate from
4 years of college if she entered college at 18..

so systematically the numbers work..

but so much stupid stuff tries to tell women.. they should be out playing the same games they played in high-school till they are near 30.. and you find more women playing "modified" high school
up to the time they are 30 or near to 30 and some play it even up to near 40... and want to act and expect people to treat them like some sparkle eyed teenager.. who has become terrified that she has to realize that she is older and can't be 17 again. but people are forever talking that stupid stuff.. of .. go have fun, you have not lived and etc.. and all it means it go screw around and test and tease anything and everything and delude yourself that you are hotter than you are ...

but many women find that their greatest joys in life are found in their kids and the nature of family life they create... but far too many... find it out too late, when they are too old to get down and play with their kids and do fun stuff with their kids.. more than sit on a park bench and watch the kids.. the younger mother's can actually interactively play with their kids.. and not have such a huge generation gap between mother and child.. and even when their kids get to be teens.. the mother still have nice shapely form and a youthfulness to do things with them.. instead of .. the way the corporate culture has tried to make people into working machines.. to the point.. by the time their kids get to be teens they are burned out corporate chasing mania.. who has a dysfunctional family... who has probably in many cases ran the husband off with their dire chase mentality of not being satisfied with anything and expecting the world...

people forget so much.. that we don't live forever... !!!! that reality of mortality comes to the awareness of people far too late in many instances... and the look back saying is what..

I should have done this when I was younger..

but these young mother,s ..not only get to know their grand kids, their grand kids even get to know who their great grand parents are..

now how many 40 year old new mothers can say their kids know or even have seen or remember their great grand parents..

it's really much more to think about .. than how many of the dating wheels, one has spun around on.. which is hollow pleasure.. that are gone.. once they are had.. but kids live on..

so it's much more than a thought to dismiss.

but... to each his own.. as we are most certainly individual who have many ways to see and do things.

I would hope that a writing as such would help women to think.. in terms to put things into perspectives so they can figure out ways to make their choices less of a turbulent thing.. and they may then become less with a dis-satisfied concept about their lives.. which many have so many broken relationships.. always thinking their lives should be more than it is.. to the point that so many let it slip by and even make it filled with contentions.. chasing dis-satisfaction to the point they are utterly dis-satisfied and then they make criteria that even unreal in and of their own lives and as a result many end up .. alone thinking it's the world but .. not knowing it may well be their manner of how they made their choices and how they made themselves unable to be satisfied with anything