is it a man or what??

A big key to change the madness is.. if we can get the women to IGNORE these buffoons.. but for some reason there are a lot of women who endorse the idiots... and they don't stop and think one minute that when that same hoodlum they claim to love so much is locked up, all she will be doing is trying to feed the baby, and catch a bus to the jail to give him part of her paycheck..

women have more power than they think.. if they ignore and refuse to talk to or date these saggin pants lowlife mentailty hoodlums who can't open their eyes to see life and see the reality of the enviornment.. and all they think as acting what they think is cool.. but really only shows them as a fool even unto themselves..

and many of them are violent to the woman.. becase they are weak.. they are so weak they wear their pride on their sleeve, which is why they are so eager to fight and kill... afraid someone may find out that deep inside they know themselves they "aint about sh*t".. !!!!!!!!!!!

a man who is a man... does not need to bully, thug, and act like some showboat idiot.. and they don't rush to fight ... and anyone who knows what self respect is.. is not too worried about someone "dissin" them because they know whom they are .. and respct their own self worth..


but these worthless .. lame physical images of male nature.. is not a man..

the difference between a man and a boy... is a sense of "RESPONSIBILITY" and that includes the responsibility to be a civil individual and a social respecter of others.. They don't need to wear.. stuff with that " look at me" neon light like" crap..

half of the one's faking and shaking... not only do they not own a home, they don't even know how to process the paperwork or engage someone who can process paperwork..

they wear what could have been a down payment for a house around their neck and in their mouth and name tag wasted money up and down the streets..

they try to identify with anything and everything but whom they are within.. they wear name tags outsied and upon themselves as their source of self idenity..

so when you see it.. you can see what of a fool ... you may be investing your time in... so... women.. you need to know the signs..

and take a stand and back away from this..

and for men.. if she looks like a thug, act's like a thug, and dresses like a thug, and talk like a thug.... then you probably should accept that she is a thug..
and a thug.. even if dressed in an evening gown, is still just a thug.. in an evening gown..

it's their mindset... which is thugged out... and no... you won't be making a princess out of her.. she is the only one that can transform herself by learning how not to be a thug and then working to not be a thug.

I see so many women accept this stuff in men... but you will not see a man who is trying to be a "man".. with a thug woman... he has not time for it... and you will not see a woman who wants to be and do something with life and even be a good mother.. will not be with a "thug man"..


but for some reason you see a lot of these couples.. where the thug hook up is visible.. now what women in her right mind would want to be with anyone who claims to be a man.. walking around advertising his butt, like he's a prision house pass around" .... and if you look at many of these.. they have a anal fixation.. and what you might be getting is a "closet ___ "

That's all these saggin people are doing .. is beneath it all.. advertising their butt, to other men... and they think the average person don't know.. they are into such.. but it's evident to anyone who pays attention... 90% of them will probably bend over .. in a corner... if they think no one is looking.. that's that prision mentality and prision habit that started the saggin... and butt exposing habit.