"lying"

believe it or don't.. life gives
every lie right back to the liar.. and the liar
is the one who has to waste their mind remembering the lie,
when people speak truthfully, they don't have to struggle
to remember it, it's part of their being and they can
express it freely and openly...


the liar has to add more lies to justify the first lie and
their life becomes the lie, as they have to live it's
snow-balling impact,


that why in relationship when people tell those what they
call " courtesy lies", eventually they will
dislikke the person they tell it to, because they have to
live with the knowing they lied and now it means the see the
person as being less than, and each lie they add to it, the
person become even lesser and lesser, and eventually...
they don't want to be around the person, because they
have to live as a liar just to be in the presence of the other..



a lie and truth are like life and death.. there is no such
thing as being .. a little dead.. you either are dead or you
are alive..


and so too is a lie, it's either a lie or it's not..



some people think being nice is to tell courtesy lies...
but such a person is no less a liar.