growing

the challenge to communicate is a very broad thing, we see even in the blogs, people are reluctant at times to communicate, and become apprehensive to speak about many things and various things; some make all things of claim to be more private, and thus many times and sometimes, doing so put a valuation on it, that prohibits even themselves from developing and growing in understanding about it. and sometimes those very same things become their stumbling blocks. some claim private when they fear to face certain things, and there is the natural manner of private which has it's places too.
the pursuit of measure, is much of the madness, of 'being good enough' and some take it to the point of thinking themselves to good for this or that.. again, the disparity and the reluctance and apprehension, stifle communicating, and again it's at the basis many things about fears and evaluations.. and both are generally diluted.. when truths of faced and communication continues beyond the zones of timidity.

life is filled with many challenges to be self, and the dare to do so.

this is not about fools dare, nor the death defying challenges. but the communication realism, that must be faced in the living of self and relating with others are there is and will be a break down;

there are some who take come to the challenge and never face it, and as a result they go from person to person, living the same circle, and claiming everyone else is the problem, and they don't grasp the common denominator may be themselves. and suddenly, when they meet someone, and finally face the challenge.. they jump and claim love, but what they really are claiming is self appreciation, of having faced the challenge.. because the one they claim love for, soon fades, when they find themselves unable to summon the will to face the next challenge, then they claim the love is and was wrong..

love itself, is a "continuation of growth with the determination to embrace the changes that build growth and unify communication, thru the challenges and within the trials of the dare to be self and share it, with both the ups and down and the many things that compose growth'..

but many never know of such, because they try and wrap the it in the illusion of fantasy, and claim and call it romance..
when truths of romance is simple.. it's nothing but.. "moments appreciated and shared within and of appreciation being shared"...
it has no script nor some particularity of setting.. it's the simplest things in life.. we confound by efforts of staged creation of fictions of every imaginable sort.. with an expectation of a constrained expectation.. until it become a forced delusion, that fades into unsatisfying short lived rush and crash... and then they fade as far from each other as they can.