You may not believe it... but it's the realism

Men.. if you are too tame, she will walk right past you... if you get with her and began to act like a tamed puppy 100% obedient, she will probaly get tired of you and go look for the next "bad boy" she can find.

that does not mean be a butt head and brute with no conscience..
but you better remain your individual self to the degree that you still take and engage some dare in your life to be yourself.

beneath the surface, a woman knows, if you have a few rough edges, it also affords her the option to have a few too. If you are a bit of a bad boy in good ways, then she can be a bit of a bad girl in good ways... and she will probably share more stuff with you, and be happy to do so.

Women walk away from the overly Mr. Nice Guys everyday.. and if you are one, and it conveys the Mr. timid, she will walk away from you too.. or she will challenge you at every turn, to try to get you to toughen up, and be yourself and not a puppet.

She might tell you she don't want Mr. creative in the bedroom, but don't believe that for one minute.. but what she don't want is Mr. Creative with a judgment mentality about what she creatively wants to do.

Most women, already know they can get many guys who play Mr. suck up, to them, but they want one who is Mr. Stand Up..

Women are very competetive people, they want to win you as much as you go overboard trying to win her..and when you go over-board like a tucked tail puppy, there is nothing left for her to win.. and she will probably get bored with you.. or find fault in everything you say or do.. simply to arouse a challenge in you, of some sort..

regardless what you think, every woman wants to think her man is tops... that does not mean be a ego maniac but "a can do person" , and one who will be willing to do things a bit different if that is what suits the situation.

if you don't.. when the "bad boy" comes into the arena, you will simply become a jealous monster, because she will smile with him.

why do you think women cater to the winner, they don't care how many other woman the winner has, they only care about their opportunity to connect with the winner.
history has shown this over and over, in how Rock stars are swooned over, how any field of life, that has what is "winners"... women will cater to him.. and don't think they don't like some of the rougher stuff, that does not mean she wants you to beat her up, but they like watching stuff like a good boxing match, and you see some of many variations of women, by ethnicity pr weal;th or poor, as close to the ring as possible, you can't think of many take a dare sports that at some point women are involved in. she has competition in her blood.. even if it's as simple as competing with other women of how to wear a particular dress..

many rich men, go get the pretty ones, and think he can pamper her and treat her like a soft squish toy, and she will kick his a*8 over and over, trying to get him to take off the 24/7 kids glove game..and get real.. and if he don't she may just choose the broke st joe, walking, who is tough as nails, just to prove the point, that she is not as powder puff as she looks... she wants to look good, cause she's a woman.. "you ever heard about " a little bit rough but mild, a little bit tender, and a little bit wild, caress her like a baby, embrace her like a child, but treat her like a woman... but know she'll meet your mind, with equality like a man.. if you do so, she'll always wants to hold your hand... and she will tell anybody, you're her man Say what you gotta say, think about her heart, and know her care and her love can be kind, then,you can say what you want to say, if you consider that in mind.

she'll go where you go - when you want to go there - as long as she knows you got her back, but you cut her some slack.. but she wants you to count on her, to watch your back ... she knows then, you want her with you, too. it's how love grows stronger, and you two will remain together, much longer. "you each become much stronger"

As to the Bad Boy.. there are women who want it so much, they will go for and some marry "some of the worst criminals in prison, even if they never get to spend time with him, they want to know they are connected to him.

there would never be such a thing as so called "cheating" if women, did not have the "i want to win attitude".. and when they get that mindset, they will do what they have to, to take a man from another woman, and they have no remorse about it..

if you are Mr. Passive, she will kick you in the butt every chance that she gets if you don't stand up for something, "sometime".. and to her, within her instinctive mind.. that makes room for her to feel comfortable to 'stand up for stuff"...
she don't care if you go do what you do, when you know that its done, and where home is, she'll be there ... don't bring back no game, and don't do things that bring her shame.. she be there to treat you good, if you do the same.

so when you are out chasing that so called pretty face or that nice butt.. you had better know what you are chasing.. because she's probably already seen a lot of lines, and many games.. and she knows a few herself..

so don't let pretty make a wimp of you.. and she might just find out that she wants to stay with you.

you may not believe it ???? but it's all real... and that's just how it is..