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if teachers need students numbers for some form of contact.. maybe they need to have it so they call into to some centralized system and that system connects the call.. where the teachers has to state a specific reason for their act of contacting the student..

other wise.. contact the parents or go thru the principals office, or say what you need to say in class. and if it can't be said in front of the class, they can always ask another teacher to sit in during the conversation..

reality is .. life.. sex is something that has it's own influences in this life, we see it time and time again.. we say.. Oh people should have restraint, but we continue to see .. life just does not work with such order and adherence to such order.... sex and it's allure has been an element that has it's own reality.. it's happen to presidents, presidential candidates, husbands, wives, preist, nuns, ministers and countless other's that it has just never been addressed..

what does movies show, you barely can find a woman over 45 in a regular show as a leading figure, and in prime time TV if they are not trying to look like a sexy teen, they can't even get on the screen in a film project, all movies and shows depict men with women averaging 20 yrs younger, and some time 30 years younger.. this is an ingrained image that is pushed world wide.. and these girls see it.. and everyone else sees it.. and just like the slogan says.. sex sells.. and that's not just in the context of money exchanges.. but value exchanges of every sort.. it's pervasive the world over..

I don't know how society can deal with it, except on individual basis.. because the laws don't stop people until they are caught..or exposed for sex.. and as far as the laws and sex goes.. it even makes a mess out of consenting adults when it come to sex..between two people.. no matter what the situation .. it even invades people who are legal age, by making public scruitny of who's sex whom into a social disgrace, and ignores the fact of everything except they had sex.. ..

this is not advocating these teachers having sex with students.. this is saying that this society promotes sex, with every manner of temp and tease that it can in it's media and the condemn it in actuality.. these kids see this stuff everyday... they see people using sex for anything and everything imaginable... and when these girls start having their monthly cycle like any other female.. they by some logic find it easy to assume that if they have that monthly cycle then they have the same nature of impact on their body, mind and arousal nature as other females.. and the " just say no" is not working for sex nor for drugs.. now how do you fix it.. I have no idea..
maybe the laws may find themselves changing back to what they were 100 years or so ago.. when marriage age was around 15 or 16.. early america and the early world.. by those ages people were marrying .. but the industrialized society came and said.. Oh, no.. we have to groom them for industry longer.. but the fact is .. industrial grooming does not change nature.. nor the human development stages of nature and it's preparing bodies for reproductive realization.. and everything that comes along with one comes along with all.. and that's desire.. and people can't stamp out desire.. Constantine tried in back during the Roman times and nearly ran himself crazy... and even had problems accepting God because he could not rule out or overcome his natural inclination of being with desire.. so much so till he did not declare his stand for God as devotional until he was on his death bed..

so .. this problem is not diminishing it's increasing.. and the more that the media shows that these girls know this stuff.. as soon as they get their period and many know about it before ... even half society jokes that virgins are the rarest thing in the world no days and is very rarely found in 15 and 16 yr olds..

we got scientist and Phd, studying everything, but why are they not studying this ... and coming up with solution or pathways to better deal with this .. why are they not researching history and getting understanding of what was natural in a time before the industrial models impacted the change.. to make marriage not a option for the span as it once was, maybe they may learn something about human nature. because academia is our current day focus.. but there was life before academia and making money became our main focus in life and everything re tapered itself to be based on earning capacity.. the problem with that is... emotions don't require money nor academia.. emotions just exist... in people.. and now we call it a psychosis.. ???????