learning times of this life

I think everyone in one of my classes knew the teacher was doing this one cheerleader.. and nobody cared.. they'd even miss the same days from school.. and nobody said a thing.. she sat right up front, in her little cheer leader dress, or during that time the skirts as near mini as they could get away with in school..

years before that.. there was one lady teacher that was doing one of the Junior football stars, and everyone knew it.. but it was not even a item that was an issue.. no one ever said a thing.. other than laugh..

I think what people don't get.. is we all know it's legally wrong.. but it's been going on forever.. and it does not stop at school.. it's probably a common habitual practice on many college campuses.. too..

but the deal is people say.. two things.. now the legal issue is a big issue.. but the second is.. the Teacher Student integrity thing..

but when they say the Teacher student integrity thing, then why does that Teacher student integrity part "disappear" when the professor in college is taping the students..

we are a society that has mixed things blending in and we may never decipher the full nature of this ...

but one thing is .. human nature.. people are sexual.. and no one has ever figured out how to contain.. teen sex drives.. you contain it one way they just figure out another way.. that's what they do.. they are natural explores and will figure a way around any thing that society throws to them..

see here's a trip.. if the teen is a gymnasty, or a tennis player, they can become professional.. and people talk about how they can handle pressure and how mature they are and all this stuff, because they are earning money for playing.. but then they want to say how immature the other teens are and what they can't handle of pressure..

and that a mixed principle.. it is either or.. they can at that age be mature, and they can at that age handle pressures of life to successful degrees..

we see it so often in any sports activity.. they are hailed as being so capable and mature and so strong and determined.. but if they are not competeting for money or trophies in some sport.. society says they are immature and can't do this or that... with regards to life pressure..

society sends kids mixed messages.. and kids are determined to defy stuff if you tell them what they can't handle and they are not mature.. you only set in motion in that kids who is a teen.. on a path they develop in their mind the intent to prove you wrong.. and then any adult that gives them respect and listen to them.. they will gravitate to.. that's human nature.

I'm saying it again.. these dumb ass PhD who study everything but reality .. in these realms.. and some of the psychologist that are on some ego trip of trying to think in idealized concepts.. miss the boat, that's why these kids look at some the psychartist as if they think this person is nuts, with that appeasement tone, and that suck up attitude and patronizing commentary.. they only respect those professionals who talk to them as real people in a real world with real life issues and realities... to them their age does not mean they are not alive and dealing with the life that is surrounding them...

that's why some of them play that.. I'm so nice image at home and go straight to tell their friends how their parents piss them off... but the one's who have parents that talk to them like people who are able to see the world that is present around them 24/7.. those kids talk to their parents.. and they will even listen to them..

but most parents don't talk with their kids they talk to them barking instructions.. but the trick is .. you are not just your kids authoratraian figure, you are too their information source, and you got to have a friend relation's with them.. they know and they will let you know.. when and where not to get to friendly and when they expect and know you should be the authority figure.. it's a matter of skill in relating... we require it ourselves in life,, so how can we not think they do..

if you think kids can't think.. listen to some of the little kids they can make very intelligent comments about stuff... if you hold a conversation with them.. we've been sitting as a family watching movies, and some of the nieces make the most intelligent comments.. that are amazing, but they say it just like a flowing thought going thru their minds. ..

I think people forget .. these teens are people.. and most teens can get anything they want.. that's why they are able to have their own drug networks and what ever.. they know this stuff.. but they make their choices why not to do stuff and will tell you why they won't do stuff if you talk to them..