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you know in the 1940's and 50's women could get valium like buying asprin.. because society did not have a clue about female orgasm or female pleasure.. and society had that mindset of sex as a duty.. so they gave this stuff to women like lollipps.. trying to sedate and appease them.. Prior to that, they had available every amphetamine.. because they did not know what else to give her to passify her sexual nature... but then came the late 60's .. women say.. hey.. no more.. we like it too.. then came the pill and women were happy... they could then engage stuff..
so they went right back into another frame work of mental subjugation of women that now women have moved indoors to their toys, to escape yet another method of supressing their sexual motivation...

but yet they are told they are equal.. but there won't be equality till women can equally state and declare they have desire and want to express it without being called a wh*re and etc... now that's a very controversial point .. when it becomes to a social subject.. but among the world of women.. they know what they like and what they want.. and many have resorted to finding a girl playmate then can do a little pleasure making and they go back to their respective lives... and both keep their mouth shut.. to avoid being labeled..

people need to wake up.. virginity is no longer a requirement for marriage eligibility... and people don't reject women as wives because she is not a virgin.. but we have a long ways to go as a society to understand our own sexual proclivities in a male and female social reality void of condemnation upon each other..

some women still have to play that.. I'm so in love game , to get a little bit, and then they got to strain their brain of how to get rid of the guy without him labeling her.. and that process usually takes about two weeks.. and some women are scared to give a guy some, for fear he will fall so in love immediately that he will began to smother her..

now this is stuff no one talks about.. but it's as real as life.. there are women who want good friends who can do stuff and go about their business but not go with a disrespecting mindset...

women love to travel to other locations.. that way they are away from the scruitnity.. so if by chance they see a situation they want to engage they can do so.. and not have to be socially condemned.
as much as some would like to think.. that every woman want to be forever with the guy they do that things with... truth is.. not every guy that woman do that thing with .. turn out to be something that she wants on the long term..

but we are such a hard pressed society for a promise, that we can't even respect each other as people.. and appreciate each other as individuals... because on thing is certain.. love is it's own thing and when two people choose to love each other they do so because they feel like doing so.. and they make their commitments to each other because they want to..

and a woman love is just as real.. who are not virgins, as one that is a virgin... so if her having sex was meaning that her ability to love was less.. there'd be no potential for divorcee to ever love .. but they can love just as equal as the next woman or person...

we have a lot to get a grip on.. and then we can relax..as human beings and people..

have you ever noticed.. that when gang bangers find someone that they love and that loves them.. they find many of them ways to get away from that gang life..

it's a complex things but it's equally as simple.. and the simplicity is ..
respect each other and appreciate each other.. whether you are in a single person to person commitment or in a social engaging assocciation of respectful and appreciative relation...

but we need to get that "notch in the belt mentality and toss it in the garbage".. people are not game pieces.. everyone is a distinct human being who is a person and feel their lives are as precious as you feel yours is...and want the same discretion and appreciation that you want.