The Sadness of " Divorce"

probably very few if any divorces come to be because of harmonic reasoning.. many become all out wars..

some, one party fights the other.. some, both parties battle with everything they have to devastate the other.. and it never dawns on many that once they loved.. that once they believed in what of love was respectful..
but... Divorce becomes everything that love is not.

add in the elements of money, add in property and add in Children.. and it becomes something that is far and beyond a peacemaking event..

two people walk away broken in ways some may not even acknowledge.. two people walk away in fragments of not only heart and spirit, but lively hood and shattered dreams..

Each day people don't talk, each day they harbor resentments and envies and linger in antagonisms of any and every sort.. they step closer to what is divorce..

It's not something that happens in a flash or upon a whim.. it's a process that has failed to become a functional process between two individuals..

sometimes pride and ego drives the wedge.. and severe the bonded parts.. some take to the connection with an ax and chop at it fiercely..
some may take a blow torch.. and melt it into a pile of molten emotions and charred remains..

some plot and plan and make it a series of sneak attacks.. and each get hired guns who have the capability of rapid fire.. or heavy ammo. yet other's .. take to the skies and drop heavy bombs
that devastate not only the mate but everything around the mate.

divorce is everything.. that love is not..