Posted 7/17/2009 6:24 PM CDT on shreveporttimes.com
We live in a odd world, with billions of people, but we have such a anti social climate within humanity. The minds of people make for a very dis-jointed world. - let we figure out, how to talk openly, face up to the wide spectrum of life's reality, unbridle the mind, with labeling natural things with taboo mentality- and grasp for more clarity even in our own understanding
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As relations and mates, we may need to gather that we are not clones, nor will we be clones of each other, and no two people are alike, Love does not mean you can remold and remake another to fit your likes, nor can they remold you to fit their's. Its a simply give and take, and share and care situation. If you don't like it first trying to understand what it is, if you find understanding, it just may open the doors of respect, and in the reality of interchanges, what we respect, can have potential to open doors to what we can appreciate.
Love does not mean, that your mate has to punch a time clock, and report the details of every minute, nor does it give a man, the right to deny a woman the right to be an individual, and nor does it give a woman the right to deny a man the right to be an individual.
Love should free people to be themselves, not bind them into a sense of bondage and encage them as if they are a pet on a leash.
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As relations and mates, we may need to gather that we are not clones, nor will we be clones of each other, and no two people are alike, Love does not mean you can remold and remake another to fit your likes, nor can they remold you to fit their's. Its a simply give and take, and share and care situation. If you don't like it first trying to understand what it is, if you find understanding, it just may open the doors of respect, and in the reality of interchanges, what we respect, can have potential to open doors to what we can appreciate.
Love does not mean, that your mate has to punch a time clock, and report the details of every minute, nor does it give a man, the right to deny a woman the right to be an individual, and nor does it give a woman the right to deny a man the right to be an individual.
Love should free people to be themselves, not bind them into a sense of bondage and encage them as if they are a pet on a leash.
Each couple must find their understanding, of whom they are as individuals and whom they are as a pair, and develop a realistic concept that allows each to continue to grow as simply human beings.
our media is filled with tales of lovers with a difference in their years, but they evidentially find something of commonest as persons or they would not be of choice to share together, yet we vilify them, because we detest they have grown to make choices and act on them, and our sense of ' play time years, is more important than to let them engage their reality as they understand and choose to develop - instead of giving understanding we give ridicule, no less than placing them in a pit and tossing stones until they submit... and the question is, submit to what? are we abusing them more than the actual fact they chose to share sex ? is the public ridicule more damaging than the fact they made a choice to engage sex, is it of a fairness to them as a person, to have their business splashed on the news.
Can we tell them that sex is for life long mates, when we have a multi billion dollar industry that buy and sell sex in every medium of expressions imaginable, we use it to sell everything form lawn chairs to car tires.. we have a mass of society, that is on 2nd, third and more marriages, and yet we expect them to be blind and unaware fo this reality. We have media designing and insuring that the innuendo of sex sells, is a part of ever commercial, it does not matter what the medium, be it print of video media, the imagery of sex sells, is the basis of our nations marketing foundation. yet we want to assume them to be dumb stupid and un aware.. yet we tell them continually to be smart, be aware and pay attention. Surely it is the ambiguity within people. that breeds the double talk- and make hypocrites of many unknowingly. Should we take time to grasp for reasons why we choose ambiguity over truth, and seek ambiguity over reality. where does truth meet reality- and honest meet disclosure- and at what point do we respect the individuals, who have reached the age of puberty and capable of not only thinking, but reproducing. We cannot change what nature activates, yet.. we may need to learn better to communicate more and with better efforts of honesty, and less fear talking about our own taboo mentality of what we can't face, and
and deal with the reality that is actual and factual... in realism.
Are we so unaware of the mental damage we do to them by such mean, is more damaging to them, and impacts their psychological well being, for the extent of their lives, far more damaging to them as a person, than the few moments they shared actions to engage a choice.
Can we tell them that sex is for life long mates, when we have a multi billion dollar industry that buy and sell sex in every medium of expressions imaginable, we use it to sell everything form lawn chairs to car tires.. we have a mass of society, that is on 2nd, third and more marriages, and yet we expect them to be blind and unaware fo this reality. We have media designing and insuring that the innuendo of sex sells, is a part of ever commercial, it does not matter what the medium, be it print of video media, the imagery of sex sells, is the basis of our nations marketing foundation. yet we want to assume them to be dumb stupid and un aware.. yet we tell them continually to be smart, be aware and pay attention. Surely it is the ambiguity within people. that breeds the double talk- and make hypocrites of many unknowingly. Should we take time to grasp for reasons why we choose ambiguity over truth, and seek ambiguity over reality. where does truth meet reality- and honest meet disclosure- and at what point do we respect the individuals, who have reached the age of puberty and capable of not only thinking, but reproducing. We cannot change what nature activates, yet.. we may need to learn better to communicate more and with better efforts of honesty, and less fear talking about our own taboo mentality of what we can't face, and
and deal with the reality that is actual and factual... in realism.
Who are You The delusions of Status - hinders many - from the illusion and delusions of title, to who has money and who does not, to what people butt looks like and what image they hold on their face, maybe the label on their costume - the demeanor changes and the faces reflect moods of many sorts.
It's such an amazingly maddening mess, and the end result we all will simply live until we die.
If we are bed ridden - we accept help from where ever we can get it, but would we respect the same people if we are healthy and on our feet.
Will we gladly buy a sandwich for a person we know has money, but we frown at doing so for a homeless person whose face shows its need.
We will spend dollar upon dollar, to buy drinks for associates, but would we give a extra coin to a help organization to support a cause of charity?
We smile at people we feel are pretty who in turn ignore us, but will not return a hello to someone we don't feel is pretty.
Once we meet a challenge, we look down on those who face challenges.
We make claim and stake claim that we are better than others, based on what we claim we don't like. and think it makes us special, rather than the simple fact we may not like something. But we act as if another is less than if they have found something to like about what we deny liking.
We say looks don't matter, then we look at couples and claim them to be a mis match because of how they look in relation to each other.
sex functions in us each, and yet.. we as people lie about its realism in our lives - some hide with toys, some hide chasing the gender the same as self, and some lie about their likes, and then draw circles around their experiences, and wonder why they feel unfulfilled.
Some deny sex,and even deny their want or like of it. as if it makes them more, when all things in life show how sex enhance those who share it with appreciations. yet, we have a society devoted to vilifying the human being behind the natural nature of sexual reality.
People grow old, as if saving it, will make them more than they are, yet, again.. sharing and interacting is what gives life it perpetual progressions and enhance the spiritual connection within two. denoting even too, that two have communicated to share a unity of experience.
Old age comes to all who live, and with its comes the taking away of the physical allure, that once could attract. and we find a world filled with old people, who somehow throughout their lives, they did not build unity, to have social relations within their later years. and chose to let allure fade into the wrinkled self, being of vain consumption over their own image. sadden are many, as the years come, un aware, the experiences they build today, become their pleasant memories of their tomorrows.
Some feel too pretty for anyone and too fine for a single one, and some feel they should have everyone, and can choose no one.
Life of days come and life of days go, and the greatest of opportunity if will ever bring, is the simple opportunity to share.
are we yet to learn our despair may be more connected unto what we selectively choose to be unaware.
none will ever get enough sex, and no amount is too much more than the individual can handle, and each tomorrow, give them the capacity to more, and holds within the passion to engage it, if simply they will.
conditions set as a price, and pre-requisites set as a point to barter, reluctance set as a measuring stick of what one will give and share, and become the same point one denies self the openness to simply appreciate what is shared.
The ambiguity of people
appears to be a chosen demeanor which assures people of being dis-satisfied, and unfulfilled..
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whom... next will the blame be placed upon.
whom... next will the blame be placed upon.
such an ambiguous question... many hold continually.
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- am·big·u·ous
1 doubtful or uncertain especially from obscurity or indistinctness ambiguous color>
2: capable of being understood in two or more possible senses or ways
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(Is Political Correctness - but a manner of deliberately ambiguous exchange)
2: capable of being understood in two or more possible senses or ways
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(Is Political Correctness - but a manner of deliberately ambiguous exchange)
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