people need to think .. just a bit extra for understanding

our society is filled with situations, the accusation is more damaging than crimes that may not have happened.. especially anything sexually related..

and there are many people who have had their lives messed up and even been imprisioned for 20 yrs to find out the woman lied.. and then they never do anything to the woman..

so women know they have a situation they can persecute a man, and never have any consequence to befall her... because society has this concept of women as some innocent beings.. as people have a "mother complex" trying to assume every woman is like his or her mother..

AND THAT IS NOT THE CASE !!!!!!!!! there is no being on this earth that can be as vicious as a woman... and a woman out for revenge is more dangerous than an atomic bomb.. and they know they can destroy lives and never have to face anything but a mass of people speaking sympathetic words to her.. and some in some situation know they can make a fortune if the media decides to pay them to tell of their activity..

because first society is intrigued about anything remotely related to a woman and sex and thrist to her all about it.. this society is so silly .. it let women take down political figures becase she had sex with him and did not get paid what she wanted.. so she claims she was taken advantage..

but yet this nation says it does not support blackmail... but it's ok for women to do it to men.. after she did not get the pay in the form she expected after she got her thrills in bed..

but if this society is every going to progress.. it first better wake up to the reality of women... and stop giving them a free ticket and telling them that live is providing them a free ticket and that men are her servant who is suppose to pay her way thru life.. it's not the 18th century, where she can't work.. Nor is it right for a woman to come into a mans life as a "flat broke" person .. and a few years later.. want to leave and take what it took him years to build and earn and save... NO.. you only take what you brought , what you earned half of and what you contributed to .. if he has 20 billion dollars, and since he met her, they now have 25 billion.. well she only get's to share half of the 5 billion... minus, the interest his 20 billion earned..

but people better think... I don't think anyone should get married without a prenuptial agreement... because the business of life, and the contractual business of what is a marriage, which requires a "license" is no different in principal.. than a business in principal which "requires a "license"..

and it's because they love each other that they make the business of marriage.. but it's still a licensed contractual agreement.. beyond the love aspect.. so when the love is gone.. the contract remains, and you settle it as a business contract is settled... because it's no longer love that is bonding the agreement.. it becomes nothing more than a licensed agreement that people have chosen to dissolve.. Child care is a given and should be part of the settlement.. but alimony... unless the baby is a new born under 3-4 years old... then Alimony is considered only up to the age of 3-4-5... because at that point the child can go to school.. and during school.. the parent that has the child can work... so there is no need for alimony..
unless of course someone is just feeling generous and want to pay for the mate to sleep with someone else.. and cover bills while they spend their money to entertain their new bed mate... but people paying alimony .. for years and years and some paying it to women who have no kids. WHY??

the mate has declared they don't have a love relationship and chose to dissolve the marrige.. so why should they get an annuity ..

society has to get past this women worshiping mentality, and the being controlled by the whim and dictates of women with the on and off affection and the attacks when that manipulation don't work... and get back to simple people respecting of person to person.. and not one owing the other something for simply relating.. men should be tired of buying assocciation at every turn in his life.. he has to buy dinner to share company and buy this and buy that.. well.. it may be simpler to just buy it on a day rate and be done with it.. rather than to get into an arrangment that cost you for life long past the point that love is gone..

people may find their lives more enriched and respect for each other on a level of equality .. by assuming EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY...

so this whole concept of not holding women responsible.. has many many many underlying ramifications that interject many things that are out of balance with society..

people say its all about love.. but how many women leave men if he looses his job, or if he can't buy her this or that, or how many women get with men they can't stand simply because he is wealthy..

well imagine.. by chance what is "prostituting mentality".. then imagine what that means.. and how that invades relationships.. with the bargain the bedroom activity... based on favors and gifts and trinkets, or if a whim is met or not.. rather than sharing because they have the appreciation to share with their mate... if it was that.. people would not be laying in bed.. after a few years of marriage.. and having sex once a month.... which is two days after payday... and then it's nothing... till the next pay day that has a bit of spendable cash left over...

people need to think... and see reality.. and address... then you may have a chance to establish something that can respect what is love, and have something that has honor to what is love.. and it may just then be able to be a loving relations.. between TWO RESPONSIBLE PEOPLE.. who are held each .. RESPONSIBLE.

and this stuff which .. "HotMess" mention.. will have less of a chance of being a tool used by vengeful women...

( i'm not saying that is what happen between this issue or not because I don't know what the details are)..

but I am saying.. there is a way... society can change to diminish that potential of abuse that is so readily available to women to destroy men by such means.