Do we have it backwards ??

Maybe society has twisted so much, until it has made life backwards.

maybe it should be older men, with younger women:
"why",
1.younger women like to do things, they like to try things, and they like to have independence and be interdependent in certain things.
2. Older man is more settled and more likely to be home after work, he is more stable in his earning, and he is less likely to try and rope or corral the young women, and he lets her grow as she envisions, while he provide her confidence to do so.
3. Younger women like to try things in bed, and older men like young women who like to try things in bed. but younger women want a man who is more patient in bed. and create more sensual settings and moods.. and work up to the dynamics.
4. younger women, want him to get it, but she don't want him to get it all the time, she is trying to figure out how to weigh meanings, vs sexual activity. and older many is willing to give her more coaxing.

maybe it should be older women, with younger men:

1. Younger men, are more willing to adventure in some things, which older women have become more confident and want to adventure different things.
2. Older women are more settled in their home life, and don't care as much if the younger man goes about and do his adventuresome things,
3. Older women, want more robust sex, and they want to try stuff with as much dynamics as she can get the older she gets, and they want it more readily than young women do with young men. They like setting up a surprise with some bedroom dynamic which is a standard of young men ways.
4. older women want him to get all he wants, and she is ready many times before he is, for another round. The older woman, is more geared to do it with more sense of freedom and openness, and is less reluctant to give him pleasure.

*****************

Maybe they would not be like this if the age things was wider and maybe flipped from the current format

Young women, always want young men, to have the traits of older men, and older women always want older men to have the traits of younger men.

Young men, want women to have the stability of mindset and confidence of older women, and older men, want older women to have the enthusiasm's of younger women.

Is it all, simply out of balance and maybe it's upside down ??

Maybe there should be at least a standard of basics which is at least 10-15-20-30+ year age difference in mates.

With the cycle of life and death being a reality.... imagine..

1 Then when the man dies, the younger women is then older, so she gets a young man,
2.If the woman dies, the young man is then older and he gets a younger woman.

It balances out because everyone gets everything.. and the circle continues, with more connectivity.. as it cycles.

Not only that, they transfer wealth in a cycle that continues to function.

It's maybe far less conflicting than the current process.



It's far more logical than our current system.
Even some things I read about early Taoist, who consider that the younger woman with a man keep his life invigorated, and we can think about the history of ancient times, which surely the historians omitted by choice, I'd think those during and before early era's took younger men, as their companions, maybe secretly ,

It's like paring youth with wisdom, it produces good growth..

but youth with youth, seem to make chaos, and they endure far more stumbling blocks in living.

There's probably more that should be questioned by the current models that exist of claiming how things should be.. when it seems to do more to divide people than it does to unite people.

many young women like older men, older men like young women, older women like younger men, and many younger men, like older women.

It appears far more natural and normal than it is abnormal... young women with older men, seem to be more confident women as they grow, and young men with older women, seem to be more confident men as they grow.