What does it take to "Learn Love"

The world lost a lot of its passion for loving, when the "me'ism" invaded the world, and people became more vain and self consumed, and thinking everything is always only about them.

It became a mad house, when people lost the ability to relate, and engaged nothing but dictations and criteria of expectations, and became lost to think the shape of their butt, or the paint on their face, or the bank account, or the car and the name tag logo's became their God.

We have seen in the past 30 years, people rudely elated about the title of their job, or the degree they got from a institution, and some gave up on love, chasing a career, and pursuing name recognition, or the vanity of trying to prove they can live without the opposite sex.

Ignorance invaded the world.. anyone can live without the other, but what kind of life is it... Other than a selfish and vain engulfment, of "me'ism".
women can't be social, and dollars in the bank, make them bankrupt when it comes to the ability to even know how to love, and some are beyond bankrupt, where they don't even understand that love is far more of value, than their title and their wearing of designer stuff, and claiming themselves queen.
Men, running around trying to capture the world, and find it crashing in on him, and thinking his dollars make him bigger than his own heart, and rude and unaware of his role to be a caretaker of what is within life, including the children, who need and want, someone to learn from, who lives with a sense of respect for others.

Everybody is worried about being pretty, until their own face, makes them a fool unto their own heart, running around stupid, to the point, they think they should be worshiped, rather than simply someone who can share as much as they expect to be shared.

People playing tid for tat, and weighing every act of kindness and then rationing it out, as if they are a miser, holding on to dried bread crumbs.

Pretty face, looking like they bit a bitter prune, when they don't get their butt kissed, or someone swooning over them, like they are the next best thing to air.. yet, they can't love, for being lost in the vain consumption of self.
men chasing wealth, and then finding it breeds nothing more than fear of loving, because the wealth is pursued or the fear of it being pursued, makes his ability to trust even less.

sex, is nothing but a bargain.. and when the bargain falls falt, then people claim the love is gone.. when they never loved, they only bartered.. and deluded themselves, while they weighted and measured everything... and found they had nothing more than an empty heart, yet, outstretched hands, trying to gab something, but with so very little to give or share..

care became a illusion, but its been relegated to the lowest level, of a chump natured bartering system, played out by males and females, for an ego elations.. and they cry tears, unaware they should be crying for the lack of love within themselves. rather than because someone did not give them the ego stroke and pay their price .. for a simply sharing of communications.

If you threw away love, because you wanted your mate to earn more, and buy you more stuff, or if you threw away love, because you think money should get your butt kissed... then you were not loving, but playing a hustle...

If you think you can only love if it entails you having everything fancy... then you are loving an illusion in your own mind, and vanity has robbed your of what love is, and stole the reality of even yourself.

People unaware, that life is all you've got, and love is the prize if you share what it is composed of..
as one day will come, when you will be no more, and all the stuff of material matter, will be here when you are gone, and that pretty face will wither into a skeletons head, without skin even to cover the bone..

Now ... are you getting a hint about what really matters.... ??

If so,... give some thought to "Learn Love'... and you may find the real meanings within living... through sharing the love you find... If you dare to make the effort to do so...

YOU ARE DESIGNED.. TO BE "EACH OTHER'S HELP MATE"... now how hard is that to understand... and its probably the greatest achievement any of us, as living beings can achieve.. is to be .. a help mate unto one another, and that is the sphere...
where love is found to flourish.