Thursday, December 17, 2009

"Being Kind" - Vol. 1

Yes its a simple concept.. but requires the work of wisdom's within self, and compassion within understanding...

It should be a city wide campaign !!!

I've seen kids at many places have and show
more kindness and courtesy in their manner than many adults in some situations.

I think its a worthy thing for Parents to undertake in teaching their kids. We see far too much of the "tough talk, tough girl and tough guy attitude and disposition in far too many place and within far too many people.

for some reason people are on edge, and at the border of feeling contempt about far too many things. This may well be a signal that a person has some issue they are fighting within themselves or their lives.. which may well find a suitable and reasonable resolve, simply by making the effort, taking the time to think and to have a motivation to act with kindness.

We have far too many people, who are quick to say what they are not going to put up with, and what they are not going to deal with, and many times. it
may be their own thoughts about matters, more than the matter itself.

On your job, regardless what type of work it is.... Be considerate, be kind and be with the will, the want and the effort to try to understand, and make the effort to be understood- and we all benefit as a society. iF this management of self is engaged by us as human beings.



If you work serving the public.. GREET PEOPLE WITH A SMILE...
. SAY THANK YOU, AND THANK THEM FOR PATRONIZING THE BUSINESS WHICH YOU WORK.
IF YOU ATTEND A REGISTER AT ANY MERCHANT FACILITY -
SMILE WITH THE CUSTOMER, MAKE THEM FEEL WELCOME.
DON'T COME TO WORK UN GROOMED, AND DON'T COME TO WORK, WITH YOUR PERSONAL ISSUE BEING REFLECTED UPON AND AGAINST THE CUSTOMER.

IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT TYPE OF JOB YOU DO.. BE PROUD TO HAVE A JOB. HAVE PRIDE IN THE JOB. AND REMEMBER, YOU ASKED FOR THE JOB, THEY DID NOT COME TO YOUR HOME AND ASK YOU TO WORK FOR THEM, SO COME TO WORK AND RESPECT THE JOB.

RESPECT THE FACT, THE PERSON OR COMPANY YOU WORK FOR, SPENT A LOT OF MONEY TO CREATE THIS BUSINESS,
AND IT TAKES A LOT OF MONEY TO MAINTAIN IT. AND IF YOU CAN'T OR DON'T HAVE YOUR OWN BUSINESS, THEN RESPECT THE ONE YOU WORK FOR. the owner spends a great deal of time, trying to make and keep it profitable, which benefits you, by providing a job. By all means "Respect that Fact".

YOUR JOB HAS RULES AND GUIDELINES, AN
D THEY HAVE PROCEDURES AND PROCESSES, WORK WITH IT, AND IF YOU FEEL IT CAN BE MADE BETTER.. GET A PIECE OF PAPER AND TAKE YOUR TIME AND WRITE OUT WHAT YOU THINK CAN BE BETTER AND HOW IT CAN BE MADE BETTER, AND ASK TO TALK TO YOUR BOSS. IT'S IN THEIR BEST INTEREST TO TRY AND MAKE THE JOB FUNCTION BETTER, NOT JUST FOR THE EMPLOYEE'S BUT FOR THE CUSTOMER. DON'T EXPECT TO GET EVERYTHING YOU WANT, BUT CONCENTRATE ON HOW TO MAKE PERFORMANCE BETTER, HOW TO MAKE SERVICE BETTER AND HOW TO MAKE IT BETTER FOR THE CUSTOMER'S CONVENIENCE.

Work to become an asset in your line of work..
If we all make that effort. We also make the effort to create an environment where other business would love to come and be a part of our city. Business seek to grow where employees are not problems but Assets..

Far too many business in this city, the people who service the public, show too much attitude toward the customer, as if they measure themselves again
st the customer, more than work to be of service to the customer.

If you work in any place and see things that need to be done. Don't wait for someone to tell you to do it, if it concerns cleaning, organizing and making things neat and orderly.

Being Kind is many things, beyond a shallow smile..
it is part of the character of individuals, and if you work on building a solid nature of Being Kind, you also develop a more workable mindset to be a respected co worker, a valued employee, and you are appreciated by the customers. You will find, that at the end of the day.. you will go home feeling positive and feeling that your day made a positive contribution in life and in your work. But if you are a contention maker, and a chronic complainer, you become the least liked employee, and you make not just your work hard, but you make the work of everyone hard, and worst in the mix, you make customers not want to come to the business you work for.
If customers don't come, then they don't need you as an employee... and you defeat your own ability to have a job..

Being Kind is many things, but it always shows the effort to be respectful and considerate. in Life - at home, at school, at work, and during the activities you engage within your daily life.

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