Thursday, August 14, 2008

"A Gift"

" a gift".. given through the truth of such, as being a gift.... is a "sharing" .. it needs no measure, it has found such already, which that prompted it to become a "gift".. otherwise there would not be a considered reasoning, to exist...

anything other.. is a bargain offering, through the barter of what is being sought for what is being given.

now, this is what I write about, which people seem to not get the point.. but few seem to gather it, for getting caught up in the their anguish of its revelations... when, it's intent is a showing these distinction.

it matters much, to truly grasp the depth of the meaning between sharing, and bartering..

many of the todays' claimed relationships, are "bartering arrangments", people have simply chosen to become, each other's best customer..

It takes people to learn more about what is sharing, if they care, to find the relationship they claim to want..
what many pursue and find.. is " mutually agreeable " bartering arrangments", they are each other's customer, who gets first option to purchase.. what the other has to barter..

fewer today, ever get to a level to learn how to share... many get too pissed off, the very minute, they did not get what they "bartered for"... and hell in the bubble, kicks them both out.. and they go about and seek to find another "bartering partner"...

and the truth comes out in the end, in most of those situations..

because they first thing out of their mouth, is what they gave, and did not get what they wanted in return.. and they are pissed at the way the bargain turned out..

people who learn to share, learn how to appreciate far and beyond, and hold no ill trips about what was shared.. nor is there a measurment about it..

many of these today style " barter arrangments' they measure everything, even to the point, of pre-mental descriptives, of what is suppose (expecting) to come back as their compensation.

people many times don't even care to think beyond their emotions, nor to put thought into their emotions, and search deep enough, to get a grip on even themselves.. they just "expect " ... but what may be brought forth, that one can expect, is thru the regard of respect for and of, and within, and unto, as well as about, what they are dealing with... and suddenly.. "life becomes more than a series of whim, and wants, but a matter of doing and being, and becomming to be...

One who has LEARNED, to share, and learned how to be a sharing individual... and that .. is one who has given into the respect of being, one who can "love"

love is sharing... and for sharing to respect itself as being sharing, it will be nothing less... in respect of what it is.. as being " sharing"

we, as people in our environmental grooming of buy trade, barter and bargain, mindsets, seek too much outside measure.. when the "gift is within us"...

all we have to do, is find what it takes to learn how to "share it".


God has give us an operators manual, to learn how to utilize the "gift" within us, and it even teaches how to find and understand the gift that is within us.. it teaches what and how to manage one's self that one may be able to give and share of this great gift..







"Every person" is a book, of many chapters, and many volumes.. lest we respect such.. we may never find the treasures of being, hidden within the pages of the chapters, nor will we find the dimensions, hidden within the volumes.

and by the ability of being "reasonable"... to consider the many ways that are ways... that are of many... expands our ability to be "reasonable".. and in being reasonable .. translates within the core composure of what is respects greater glory.. to be "just"

and in being "just"... man seeks not man to yeild that which he choose not to yield... for mankind as the being of self... is given free choice.... and the stand of another's claim of respect, cannot take such choice from another..

now if that choice in to encroach upon your same rights of self.. then is when man.. goes to defend himself, in respect of and for himself..

therefore, one may care to "respect self" enough to be "aware".. that he may pay attention to that which surround and is within his surroundings, that his respect for and of himself.. is not in a situation where harm is highly prone to be the make up of his pathway..

it's like water.. water won't drown you.. but it can, simply by being what it is, bring you to drown yourself.. by not respecting yourself to understand "you as a being" cannot breathe in water nor breath through water, and if man has not respectful regard of water nor the properties of himself within water.., then it will remain being water, and may do what it does..and that's flow into any opening that it can and will manage to find, within it's flow.. and unguarded man of his own choice to disrespect himself, by ignoring the properties of water, and the capabilities of himself... will drown..

and such people, make either themselves to be foolish, or they are in a daredevil mode, to defy his own properties and that of the water as well.. and he shall drown, without mercy from the water.. nor from himself, because his disrespects has make him unable to even save himself.
man may find.. "the ability to be of reason, to be reasonable".. may serve him far better than to have th haughtiness of pride, to claim his stand to respect, to out weigh his ability to be "reasonable".. to seek reasonable accords... such may even bring a man, to ask even unto himself, in such new found wisdom... what of, composes his own expectations.


nothing is free... even the condition of ones being at the time of receptions is not how they got there for free.. if a bum, is on the streets, and they are in dire need,.. they paid a price for being that "bum".. and it is the pity or care that another sees which may bring one to give the "bum" a dollar.. but that does not mean the "bum", got it for free, they still have to pay the price of being a "bum", they have to pay the price of finding the humility to humbled themselves to the degree it takes to be a "bum" ...

there's nothing free..

if one gives their love to another, it's what work that other has put into themselves, that makes another want to give their love to them..
they pay the cost to be that person and they pay the cost of what it takes to maintain being that person, who is given this love..

our minds measure much before we even know it, say for instance, the speaking of words may be what, 60-80 per minute, but the mind can think 10 times that, and maybe more.. the mind thinks in whole captions which can contain thousand even millions of words to describe what it has surmised.. in a thousand different ways, depending on how feeling impacts it..

Respect never needs to demand respect.. "Respect is such a profound things" it's mere existance "commands" respect.. whether others bring it in equal or not.. it still commands it, because it settle for nothing lessor than what it is.. it can understand many things, that may not be all that it cares to be, but that's why we have such a thing as, "compassions"... an innate care within mankind for and of mankind... and thus.. it invokes us, to use understanding, and we express to evoke communion within expression to find that understanding.. and it can be as simply done as thru a smile, or even the body language of a non contest composure..

We are of much, and it's all composed within who is us, the individual as being the "you" of self.. ( years of unfolding)

mankind gives and with-holds, to manage himself.. in within living.. "seeking"... a level of " sharing"... that is suitable that he or she can live with... because none of us, can be everything another wants, thinks or imagines "we" to be... so we have the graceful ability to "be with the capacity to utilize reasoning, that we may find our pathways and interactions as being ... "reasonable"

otherwise.. we may become a "tyrant".. and then we have tyrannical motivations and intentions, with an urge to be dominating, and thus to usurp, other man... and one may claim their respect of self so high, they give themselves the unjustified right, to assume, others must be of submission or yielding, as they have determined others should before they claim it being respected... and such .. can be a very confounding position even for one's self.

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