learning

sx is for sale by as many means as anyone can
imagine.. and some find more sharing of the bedroom
activity by paying for it, than many find in what they call
relationships.. NO.. I know no one wants to deal with that.. some like to buy it thru romance games, and some do it thru
straight bargains.. flat out.. "this for that"



if anyone wants a relationship.. Go build one..
person to person, both giving as much as they expect to get..
and both putting in effort, and not measuring how much they
value their effort and how little they value the other person
effort.. you either like the person or you don't. you either want to make a relations with them or you don't..



but if you are just chasing some romantic illusion making,
you problem will find the same disappointments the you
found before..


Most of the guys, who talk about truly loving their women,
who passed away.. they grew that to be that.. they did not
buy it with games of flash and dash... and how much they can
show and flaunt..


and it was their women.. who shared with them and used thrift,
not spend thrift.. chasing delusions.. and they accumulated
what they attained.. as two working together..


" don't ask what you can't give equally or
meet it by some measure".. and "don't go
about thinking that someone owes you something to relate
with you".. because the only thing people if anything
owe each other is the right to be honest with each other,
and let honest bring it's truth, and let kindness be
a product of truth..


anything else is "bullsh*t".. and both of them
will find themselves covered in it.. crying their eyes
out, asking where did their "ILLUSION GO"..



MAYBE if people spend time being honest with each other
they may find they enjoy sharing truth, and appreciating
kindness, and when they look back over it.. then it shows
what of romance it was...


but this pre-scripted chasing of delusion.. find few finding
honesty, and they avoid the truths of each other, and sell
and bargin kindness.. and later fight like two wild dogs..
and when they part, one wants both dog houses, or they sell
the dog house, and end up in the street.. and the puppies
they had, don't know which direction to go, if it cared
to visit it's parents.. and that.. wide spread and
becoming more wide spread...


and all the stuff they chase, gets old, needs repair and
become obsolete.. and then they got a house full of old junk,
they threw their lives away and beat the hell out of each
other about. then they whimper.. when wisdom knocks them
on their posterior, because they did not pay attention..



that old saying holds true.. people doing the same things
over and over and expecting a different result.. is claimed
to be the definition of insanity.. but in street lingo,
people call insane people, a fool.


Ignorance is an interesting world...


it's find everyone is ignorant about something...



but to be ignorant because one is just unaware or did not
know, is respectable to a degree.. but to be ignorant and
not care about being ignorant.. is the worst form of ignorance..
because thing one is ignorant to the fact they are ignorant
and have care about being ignorant.. they just follow the
script...


" thinking, it's one of the great gifts we were
bestowed with".. but we rather let.. emotions govern
reasoning, and claim it love, rather than let reason manage
emotions so emotions does not consumes us beyond what reason
could prepare us to deal with..


but here .. so many are concerned about getting their "fix"..
of emotional consumption.. as if they chase.. being overcome
by their emotions, .. rather than learn to appreciate
thru managing their emotional sharing.. and learning
how to share more of their emotional self. and it's
work... but people don't want that..they want the
quick fix.. of illusion, and then whine and cry about the
delusion they find themselves.. and they are ready to kick
each other's posteria and take from the other anything
they can get as revenge for their own trip... they blame
on the other.. because life awakened them from their illusion
and presented them with reality of actuality.. which command..
that people learn and grow and work for what they want.


soft talk anything that delights.. but truth comes are
raw as life.. and it may have a costume of your choosing,
but if it's going to get real.. it will have to shed that
costume.. or nothing is happening.