there are many attitudes in living - but within it all, there is some learning engaged, it is up to the individual to gain that learning.. not everything is liked nor will everything be liked, but what is relative to growth, is the ability to not shut down at the first agitation, and sadly, this is a point of discussion.
people shutting down, the minute they don't get their emotional high from something, but as with life, the sun does not reach the earth everyday in an un clouded skies, and there are many types of could that bring many thing that take place beneath those clouds, and the sun shines above them even still.
I have found in this web site, that women are quick to shut down at the slightest thing, but they claim they are open minded, but close it at the slightest thing when they don't get agreed to, patronized, or solicited with nearly suck up like patronizing from men. they run from the magazine, because the men there don't play worship the female games, and talk about the reality of situations, and the real world truth, that exist. the oddity is, some women will quickly tell men, the exact same thing about other women, when she is trying to catch him, and claim herself above the rest, but turn and detest men, acknowledging the same things.
people can read blogs, and get attitudes, and not engage to share commentary, as if they feel that will diminish the blogs which already exist when they get to it. there are people who get in the web sites and slam and fight each other for a million motivations of attitude, and many have never met nor know anything about the other individuals.
Attitudes that some think they are too pretty for others, or too elite minded for others, or too special for others, and the self consumption of it all, takes more from them then they think they deny unto others. some will deal with their disagreements, and move along to the next subject, and maybe they agree maybe they don't but, they did not shut down.. some carry grudges, like they have a collection bag, waiting to fill it up... some roll with the changes and keep being interactive.
funny things about living...
when the whole of it is simply, we all will live and we all will someday not live anymore, every person that eats, must s--t, and every person who is awake will need sleep...
no amount of money or ego, will make anyone get an extra minute when their time comes, nor will their ego, get them any more favor in Gods eyes, what will matter, is the good they do, and if they can engage life with human regard for others..
have your pleasures and have your fun, dream your goals, and pursue your dreams.. but know that nothing is a fantasy, but all things which become a part of life is the reality that becomes your living.
never think you are too high, because you may find how low you are, and never think you are too low, because you can find that you stand as equal as others, in the fact of being alive and being a human being of the world.
No matter what you think you expect, respect must meet respect, if it is to be respectful with mutual regard.
what's between your legs can make more a fool of you, than those you try to make a fool of with it.
and no matter who or how you engage your sex, it will never be anymore than you think it is, and when time comes and goes, its just what it is, sex... and every experience is what you make of it or what you don't make of it... so rating and judging another, means that you probably have ignored your own functional performance, while you are judging another.
your stuff is no better than the next person, because its a generic body parts, all females have one that is specific to females , and all males have one that is specific to males.
and the summation of it all, comes to the simplicity of - communication.
you either can and will and do, or you surround it with conditions and restrict it with expectations.
and your life shows the results... |
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