The NAACP... could really boost it's power and presence

The NAACP... could really boost it's power and presence, if it spend some effort to push an agenda that has a "integrating" message. many people are trying to climb either corporate ladders, or within some corporate structure, be it entertainment of other professions.
and that means they have to work in a fully "mixed" enviornment, and they have to present a fully integrating mindset.
that does not mean, abandon the causes that help black people, but do it in a way, that simply helps people, who share the commonest of 'CONDITIONS".. and "commonest of challenges based on conditions".. and it will be seen, that the issue of the challenges, have yes, black components, but many components, beyond the skin matter, meld into "conditions of integrating capability, not just ethnically, but economically, as well as socially, even within races, as well as across racial distinctions.

It's time for the Organization to Evolve, in its core manner of promotion. It does not have to abandon any causes, but it does have to open up, its ability to invite and embrace people, and conditions, with less dominance of skin matters.

As a low cost way to change its message without changing it's Acronyms... could be:

"NATIONAL AMERICAN ASSOCIATION OF COLLABORATING PEOPLE"

There is a certain level of ( perceived concepts of ) militancy, [because of the historical pursuit and engagements that were undertaken in the pursuits of equality and recognition for and of equality, when faced with a opposition that was set on denying equality,] now we have legal equality, we may seek to expand and find collaborating means far and beyond, in just fighting for one cause of one people based on "COLORED", as the original premise mandated at the time of its inception, which was then highly necessary... Today, with the diversity, post Civil Right Act, its far too POLARIZING of a denotation( as its perceived by those we have to work with and bond as a one nation conceptual realization), we understand, based on where it began and within the history in which it began,it needed to be singular in pursuit.. but today.... Time have changed, and we have to change how we engage our actions within the times of change. and what is needed is the push of integrating collaborations, of many colors, and ethnic make up of people, as the population integration is now far different than it was and continues to change daily.

Too many white people as well as Asian, Latin and others, would connect with the organization, but when it pushed a segregated nature of imagery and cause.. it only breeds contempt, and that subtle contempt, alienates many people, who are within the corporate loops, as well as the mass of people, who depend on an audience of the public that has not segregating color divide. and they can't afford to alienate their fans or their supporting public.

We have tot hear too what white people are saying, and be aware of how outraged we'd be if they created a group, called anything of "white people".. so its time, to make a change. We engaged that hurdle, during the 1960, with the passing of the Civil Rights Acts.. and now our next phase is to be "AS WITH ALL PEOPLE, AND MIXED WITH ALL PEOPLE, AS SIMPLY A WORLD, AND A NATION, OF "COLLABORATING" PEOPLE.. that is how we forge ahead to build and inspire the promotion of and "American people as a whole" which includes all of us.

the longer we push black organizations as being black organizations, we push a contextual nature of segregation, which is something that was fought against, yet, we continue to enforce it, when we once detested the mere concept of segregation. So we must advance... as simply people, when we denote an Organization, and be as Dr. King... He fought for EQUALITY', for ALL PEOPLE, yes, we may have been the catalysis, but the result is, equality must be for all people, or none can claim it.

consider what good this organization can do, and it will be clear it can multiply that good, by enjoining people as people, who simply live in collaboration for the simply advancement of PEOPLE.

IT'S TIME... What more does it take other than the dwindling numbers, to denote the fact that conceptual image change is needed.

let's not whip a dead horse, when we can nourish a spirited pony, and ride into the light of change.

[[[[ Too many white people as well as Asian, Latin and others, would connect with the organization, but when it pushed a segregated nature of imagery and cause.. it only breeds contempt ]]]

this concept of contempt .. does not mean the organization is contemptuous.. it means the perception by non colored, who are not a participating member, feels the same nature of contempt, that we as black people felt when the nations system, denoted, a manner and sense of "segregating premise"..
Therefore, we must be with a sensitivity, to be beyond, any inference which can be interpreted as being "segregating", when we fought so hard for an integrating society, where all could interact with all, and all could join in any organization, without bias, or perceived bias.. Let us.. not create what we fought to dismantle.. but let us, find ways to push forth with what we first fought for..
and that is organizations, that had not stigma which infers any segregated mantra or interpreted composure.

Shall we simply, consider this carefully.. to expand, grow and meet with the change.. as we first pursued to invoke change.. where bias, and the perception of bias, was removed from any an all organizing bodies.. where any people.. feel EQUALLY, welcome to be a participating member.

REMEMBER THESE WORDS... the are in the History of America, which began a NEW AGE of GROWTH... as a Nation... it was a turning tide in what is considered America, and where it needs to be.

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# The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people. For many of our white brothers as evidenced by their presence here today have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny and they have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom. We can not walk alone."
# "I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: 'We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.'"
# "I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character."
# "I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at a table of brotherhood."
# "This is our hope

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We can't breed nor promote the full reality of equality, when we attach, "Black" after everything.
We can't continue to push ourselves, as special, and then complain when other groups do the same.

We need to push for the same INCLUSIONS we first sought, and be equally so, INCLUDING, in the things we push for, to invite and blend others into what we do and how we present what we do.
or we create a faction of what we fought against, and make ourselves, the same thing we once detested.. and that is a image of "better than"... others...

Let's get back to SIMPLE... EQUALITY... AS PERSONS... ! THAT IS THE PREMISE THAT UNIFIES... WITHOUT ANY SEGREGATION COMPONENTS.

If many want to help the President, then do it by not being so quick to denote everything as some black affair, or black organization, but simply as an organization FOR PEOPLE.

Even with the so called . BLACK COLLEGES, drop the "Black" from it and make it simply a college and let it stand on its own functioning prestige as a educational institution that seeks and supports 'excellence in education"...
enrollments may spike, and the stature may elevate, to not only be multi integrated, but the graduates will have a better platform to be a integrating part of the corporate world, not as a secular entity, that gets propped up, based on skin color as a denotation, that over-ride the basic premise of Educational success from a quality institution which has the highest standards of Academia ... That nature of generic denotation is what is needed..

and many of these colleges, can get the universal accolades as of parity with the other Ivy League educational institutions.

Let's move into the 21st Century... of the same Unity we first sought.

Where do we truly begin ???

Things seen ... of such a challenging devastation of many sorts, and broken lives in fragment pieces, hope spinning in a circle chasing modes of despair . People wondering what is life, and what is fair, and why situation seem as if there is so little of care.

Where do we truly begin ???

I often wonder, how did the classrooms of the nation, escape some of the people, and why some who entered did not gain from the experience. I see the cycle of community, when it accepts itself in lesser terms, then it declines below the dignity of those who could otherwise find their way to rise. Habits, that over-rule education, and patterns in daily living, that voids out the practice of self investment into learning a better way of life.

People who see images on the media from movie to movie - yet feel it is a life on a foreign stage from their own, and they grasp not the identity of growth, to see there is more, and come to know, one can achieve greater.
When means seem to be a challenge, and the feeling of destitution is not only self encircling, the environment of the community, paints so much of the same. Then many find themselves caught within the cycle of decline, and see nothing but the circle of habits, which dominate the neighborhoods, and they are unable to surmount the challenge to rise above.

This is the time, to reach out to learn, ask questions, and seek out the will of others who are available to offer help - As to see a job counselor, ask to see an education counselor, and if you need help coping, go and ask for help from the public service facilities, who can provide counseling on any number of things. Never allow yourself to feel bad, to ask for help, and always know, it is a step in the direction to help yourself, when you seek out asking for the help you want, and the help you need. summon the courage within, and hold your head high and ask with the sincerity of your life, and you will find, there are many avenues to provide you words or encouragement, words of hope, and a listening ear, to hear you share your thoughts, and give you the care to listen to your challenges.

If you are feeling anxious because of a fractured love relationship, or situation of any type, call a help line, and talk about it, go to a church and talk about it, and seek out the listening ears of those avenues that provide you a means to express the feeling. there are countless Churches, there are countless options at the LSU or any college center, who can help you find a counselor. If you run out of options, "Call 911 as an emergency in search of help, if you feel, you will do something wrong, or violent. they can get you help. Don't hold it pent up inside and let it become a raging fury, for it will simply destroy you, or cause you to do things that destroy much more than yourself. when you have the choice, if you take the control, to simply "Seek out Help". It takes more strength of self to seek out help, than it does to act out in fits of violence.
Don't allow yourself to live a small life by letting anxious feeling, anguish you and overcome you with violence, because then you have lost the temperment of self, and you act in ways that weaken yourself even more. If you have the energy of anger, then turn it around and let it become the passion which seeks out help. You will find you are "respected for the choice of doing so". It will help you regain balance within yourself.

The Hood mentality, seems to be a thirst of its own, ever so quenched by identifying with the hood, not only in mindset of despair, but in the dispensing with what is taught in the classroom, and reverting back to the habit of the community. Learning then fails to achieve what it might.

One of Many, become Many who influence each one, and the cycle is like a suction hole, pulling people who have found nothing to grasp on to for the uplift out of the madness.

Where do we truly begin ???

• Start -- with getting up in the morning and groom ones self, it does not matter if you have no designated place to go, you groom yourself to meet and greet the day.
• Choose the clothes that fit properly, it matters not if you go to a job that you get dirty, by all means, leave home clean.
• If you sleep in pajama pants, when the morning comes, put them away, and dress for the day, you never know, if today will deliver your dream, or God will smile a blessing to go along with the blessing of life, you receive each day.
• Don't develop a lazy mind, not fall helpless to a lazy tongue. You make those choices, and liefe gives much of grief to those who challenge not themselves. Life will give you many challenges, lest you choose challenges that will uplift yourself, open your mind to learn more, prepare yourself to do more, and see yourself growing toward the dreams you hold.
• If you find the people around you want to languish sitting under a tree all day, or laying on the porch watching the traffic go by, then you need to know, they will frind themselves day after day, sitting under a tree or on the porch watching traffice go by, until time finds them to have aged, and accomplished nothing more than, watching traffice go by.
• If you can sit all day, with nothing to do, and no thought of anything you could do, and no motivation to try to do anything. Then go and volunteer yourselfto help someone, and you may find you are also being helped in the process.
• If your assocciate want to do nothing, or they have put down comments about everything, and want you to languish in doing nothing, then it is time for you to find new friends.
• Go to the local college, call them up, make an appointment, they can show you how to get a grant to go take some classes, they can show you how to get into the habit of school, and you will find your life changing day by day.

EVERY "YOUNG MAN IN HIS 20's" SHOULD BE RACING TO GET TO SCHOOL - If you are unaware that the world will provide your nothing, if you don't prepare for something. You can get lost in your own mind, rapping and tripping, and find yourself, with years going by, and the result is the same, you will simply grow older, rapping and tripping.
Spending your days looking for something to excite you, rather than to go pursue the excitement in yourself by investing your mind, into learning. You may find the excitement of knowledge may bring your to see more of how to appreciate the gift of your life.

Many young women are outpacing the men, in learning, they are filling the classrooms of the centers of education, they are growing and learning how to better develop themselves, and pursue the dreams, they are not sitting around hoping without putting forth effort. Some young women, care for a child, work a job, and still pursue education.

Too many young men
are out looking for a fast dollar, that leads to a jail cell, and a criminal record.
Why have so many young men, become so lazy, and so un-caring about self development. Your days will come and go, so you just as well spend part of it in a classroom, because the time will pass anyway, you just as well be working on self development and growth. instead of thinking you will make fast money and end up and find yourself in a hell hole of a situation with no way out.

Hustling, is nothing but a person being hustles and running a game, that encircles themselves. it cost you 10 times what you think you gain, and you can't afford the expense of hustling, if you think and become aware of what you give up, for the delusion of being a hustler. You simply make of yourself a fool, who waste his time, and gain so little.
many have made dollars, in the game, but they can't buy anything in their name, so they waste it away with cars, clothes and self indulgence. and the hustle become their life, and consumes their living, and they never even know, they have themselves, been hustled !

Be Thankful for your health - and make somthing good of your life.

People.. look around.. there are many of those who are healthy, they can walk freely, talk and utilize their 5 sense and use their ability to mobilize themselves.. If they knew what a blessing it is, they'd do something to learn to be a contributor in life, If they fail to see the gift they have naturall, then they should go visit a hospital and see the sick, or go to a nursing home and see the aged, who can no longer mobilize themselves. If you have not a penny in your pockets, you still have each day..

The breath of life..

Don't waste it, wasting your time away. Each day should be a journey into learning, an adventure into growing and be an experience that builds wonderful memories of you, expressing yourself and making contribution within life and living.

Kids and School ( Part I)

Kids and School ( Part I) " Don't Embarrass Your Child" - Think about what you are doing and how you do it"

Posted 8/21/2009 10:18 PM CDT on shreveporttimes.com

If you are easily frustrated and easily agitated, then you probably don't want to read this!!!
If you realize "kids matter, their feeling matter, and their esteem is important in their ability to communicate in class,
and hold their heads up and feel good about themselves"..

Then maybe you will join in, to help inspire parents to truly consider how they represent themselves, when they interact with the child, and how they present themselves at their Children Schools

Insure your child is professionally neat and well groomed

Some people don't like to read or see anything which talks about the stuff everyone thinks but no one wants to say anything about it.

Well.. I'm saying something about it.. Those who want to chime in feel free, you can agree or disagree, and that is your choice. But I'm saying what I think about the matter, and hope you will too.

Kids - Parents

And

"School"

First and foremost - go to your local school which your kid attends, and introduce yourself to the staff. Maybe it would even be good if you wrote a note, to let the school know, they can count on you, to support your own kid, and to be supporting of the teachers and the other children at the school.

Why do I say that??

• Number one, Do you know what these teachers go through to become teachers? Do you have a thought about the dedication they have to the profession of teaching? They are there to provide education to "YOUR CHILD", yes, Your child... It is far from a whim, or a flight of fancy, these teachers put in the work to become teachers. If you think its not work, then you go and make the effort to become a teacher, so that you might truly understand what it takes.

• Number two: Our schools provide many products and services and its done at no cost to you, as an individual. It does not matter what your income status is, YOUR CHILD IS AFFORDED AN EDUCATION, this is a blessing.. it is something we should all be thankful for in American, and it is certainly something, which no one should take for granted.

The Great Benefits of The American School

Our Schools provide not only things which many people ignore the value and the benefit of, they provide things people take for granted and never know how great of a gift our system provides for children. If you would like to just think of a few things, which so many people ignore.

1. Yes, the classrooms have desk and chair, they have "air conditioner in the hot months, and heaters in the cold months".
2. They have Cafeteria's which prepare a hot meal in a clean and sanitary environment.
3. The school grounds are trash free, and kept neat.
4. Libraries with a wide assortment of books, Classrooms with not only books, but a wide range of other teaching aids and equipment.
5. Your kids have access to a computer, and they have someone who is there to train them on using it.
6. Grounds are watched by security and teachers, who make a strong effort to provide safety and the comfort of a monitored environment.
7. We have Buses, which are provided, and no parent has to worry about gas money for the bus, nor do they have to worry about paying for a driver.
8. The office is staffed, there are people on campus to address any child being sick, and they can and will contact the parent immediately if there is a issue. The office is staffed, to address any interest you have, and any parent can call and make an appointment to see staff or make arrangement to inquire about matters of their concern.
9. Your Child has an assortment of learning experience, including music, art and physical health education and many things, which some kids rarely get even at home.
10. You have a Principal, who is not only committed, but they have a vested interest not only in your child doing well, but they care to insure their teachers do well, and the grounds and facilities are serviced, as well as the many things, which go into running a school, that many parents never give a second thought about.

Now, this list can go on and name more things than many people will even take the time to consider and some won't even take the time to read about or attend open house to find out.

School in Very Poor Countries

Schools in America

Today, many parents can come up with more excuses than a kid who does not want to go to school, when it comes time to attend a PTA meeting, some parents don't even know the name of the Principal or the other members of the staff. Now why is that???

DON'T GO TO THE SCHOOL AND EMBARRASS YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILD, WITH A MASS OF LOUD TALKING AND NEGATIVE ATTITUDES.

It's purely amazing how some parents don't even stop to think of how they embarrass their child, when they go to the school un-groomed, and with loud talking and heavy attitudes, and being with the mindset of contempt. As if they don't have the vaguest idea, these Teachers and Staff are there to help your child.

If parents take the time, to insure their children go to school and follow instructions, it would make the Teachers job much easier, why should the teacher have to waste time, teaching YOUR CHILD, basic discipline, Why does the teacher have to waste time, teaching your child "BASIC KINDNESS". .
The teacher can and will administer discipline, and they do so with the kindness as best they can, to insure they provider a level of discipline that get the message to YOUR CHILD, that they have to cooperate, and they have to learn to work with a group environment and respect the group of students.

NOW AS A PARENT, WHAT CAN YOU DO TO HELP THAT SITUATION??

Many children come to school and they are flat out starved for attention, because they don't get any at home. many children come to school starved for someone to talk to them in KIND TONES OF VOICE, and sadly, some children as so use to being YELLED AT, NEVER TALKED TO AND TREATED AS IF THEY ARE AN OBJECT, BY THEIR PARENTS. until they come to school with a defense mechanism already active, because they are so use to only hearing someone yell at them, or bark a series of "no", "go sit down", "get outta my face" and every other kind of esteem destroying craziness which is what far too many of them get at home.

Some of these kids come from homes where they have far too much, "LOUD TALKING, AND YELLING PARENTS, WHO NEVER HAVE A KIND THING TO SAY, AND NEVER SAY ANYTHING WITH A KIND TONE, UNLESS THEY WANT SOMETHING IN RETURN.

SOME OF THESE CHILDREN COME FROM HOMES WERE THEY ARE TREATED LIKE THEY LIVE IN A CONCENTRATION CAMP, NEGLECTED, NO ONE EVER TAKES TIME TO ACTUALLY TRY AND HAVE A CONVERSATION WITH THEM, AND NO ONE LISTEN TO THEM, OR TAKE THE TIME TO EXPLAIN ANYTHING TO THEM.

All some of these children hear is someone telling them, "Go someplace and play" - Now what the heck does that mean ?? Have your considered the fact, to a child it only means that you are neglecting them and rejecting their presence in your life. If you want them to go an play, then why not direct them to something they can play with, or some specific thing they can get involved with as an act of playing. And when they come to show you what they have done or what they have learn, don't push them away before you even take the time to find out what they are saying.

YES... YOU AS A PARENT WOULD BE STEAMING MAD AND GET BILLIGERENT IF SOMEONE TREATED YOU, THE WAY SOME PARENTS TREAT THEIR KIDS.. yes.. some one you would be bobbing your head, and slinging your fingers, and talking trash a mile a minute, claiming what you don't have to put up with. But..SOME PARENTS, never stop to think, they do exactly that same things to their children, but they can't stand anyone to do it to them.

You want to know why your child does not learn...?? MAYBE YOU ARE CONTRIBUTING THE PROBLEM!!! If you are a parent who continually breaks down the child’s esteem, until they are practically afraid to even attempt to talk, and afraid to ask a questions, and made to feel stupid if they do ask a question. Then what do you think will happen in the classroom.. YES. !!! THEY WILL BE AFRAID TO TALK, THEY WILL HAVE NO CONFIDENCE WHEN THEY ATTEMPT TO SPEAK, AND THEY WILL FEEL WEAK IN THEIR ABILITY TO EVEN PRONOUNCE THE WORDS THEY KNOW IN THEIR MIND TO USE. YOUR CHILD WILL BECOME SLOW IN READING, THEY WILL BECOME SLOW IN THINKING, AND THEY WILL NOT BE CONFIDENT TO ENGAGE "RATIONAL THINKING", BECAUSE THE RESULT OF YOUR ACTIONS WILL SHOW THEY HAVE CONTINUTALLY BEEN BEAT DOWN AT HOME, FOR EVEN EXISTING, AND TREATED MISERABLE IN EVERY WAY THAT DAMAGES THEIR ABILITY TO COMMUNICATE..

IF YOU DON'T HAVE THE PATIENT TO BE A PARENT, THEN YOU SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT THAT BEFORE YOU HAD A CHILD, BUT NOW THAT YOU HAVE A CHILD, THEN YOU NEED TO THINK TWICE BEFORE YOU SO MINDLESSLY ABUSE YOUR OWN CHILD. AND TREAT THEM WITH THE KINDNESS YOU WOULD WANT FOR YOURSELF.

Sadly, some of the parents who go to the school raising their voice and yelling like someone who has lost their mind, and huffing and puffing and acting like some bully.. ALL YOU ARE DOING IS DEMONSTRATING JUST WHY YOUR CHILD IS HAVING PROBLEMS.

YOUR ACTIONS TELL A TRUTH THAT YOUR LIPS ARE TRYING TO LIE ABOUT, AS TO HOW, MUCH YOU HAVE FAILED TO LEARN IN YOURSELF, OF HOW TO EFFECTIVELY COMMUNICATE.

• YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO YELL AT A TEACHER
• YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO DISRESPECT A TEACHER
• YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO BE RUDE AND INSENSITIVE TO A TEACHER
• AND YOU NEED TO LEARN TO LISTEN TO THE TEACHER AS MUCH AS YOU WANT THE TEACHER TO LISTEN TO YOU
• YOU NEED TO RESPECT THE FACT, THAT EACH TEACHER HAS MORE THAN JUST YOUR STUDENT, TO TEACH.
• YOU SHOULD RESPECT THE FACT, THE TEACHER CANNOT ALLOW YOUR CHILD TO DISRUPT THE CLASS AND DISTRACT OTHER STUDENTS, IT IS NOT FAIR TO THE OTHER STUDENTS.

BEFORE YOU RUN TO THE SCHOOL, CLAIMING YOUR LITTLE CHILD IS AN "ANGEL".. YOU FIRST NEED TO PAY ATTENTION TO HOW YOU COMMUNICATE WITH YOUR OWN CHILD, AND DON'T GO TO THE SCHOOL AND EMBARRASS YOURSELF AND YOUR CHILD, WITH A MASS OF LOUD TALKING AND NEGATIVE ATTITUDES.

• IF YOU THINK YOU HAVE AN ISSUE, THEN TAKE THE TIME AND SIT DOWN AND WRITE IT OUT, MAKE AN OUTLINE, IF YOU EXPECT TO ACHIEVE A CONSTRUCTIVE RESULT. IF YOU HAVE NOT THE TIME TO DO SO, THEN YOU PROBABLY HAVE NOT TAKEN THE TIME TO TRULY UNDERSTAND AND INVEST YOURSELF INTO THE SITUATION TO ADDRESS IT WITH THE FULL CIRCLE OF RESPECT.

1. DON’T!!!!! LET ME REPEAT!!! Don't go to the school in your "hot pants',
   
   and your butt high dresses,
   
   
   
   or with your breast hanging out as if you are in a night club.
   
   Go there and respect the fact, this is a school, and dress yourself with a respectful attire.
2. If you want to go there and talk to the teacher, make sure you wear a clean change of clothes, and look neat and presentable. There is absolutely no reason that you should not prepare yourself, if you "PLAN" to go to the schools to conduct any kind of activity.

YOUNG MEN...

1. DON'T GO TO THE SCHOOL TO SEE YOUR CHILD, OR CONDUCT ANY BUSINESS WITH A "DO RAG" ON YOUR HEAD, AND YOUR PANTS HANING DOWN, AND LOOKING LIKE YOU'VE LOST YOUR UNDERSTANDING OF WHERE YOU ARE.
2. , THIS IS A SCHOOL; IT IS A PLACE WHERE YOUNG CHILDREN ARE BEING EDUCATED. NOT ALL PARENTS NEED YOU LOOKING LIKE SOEMTHING; THEY DON'T EVEN LET THE CHILDREN WEAR TO SCHOOL. YOU ARE NOT IMPRESSING ANYONE OF ANYTHING, OTHER THAN THE FACT, THAT YOU DON'T EVEN RESPECT THE INSTITUTION OF SCHOOL, TO PREPARE YOURSELF TO PRESENT YOURSELF IN A BUSINESS CASUAL RESPECTFUL PRESENTATION.
3. THIS IS NOT A 'HIP HOP' CLUB ENVIORNMENT, IT IS A SCHOOL.
4. WHEN YOU WALK, WALK LIKE A MAN, "AT LEAST WHILE YOU ARE ON CAMPUS", UNLESS YOU HAVE A NATURAL "LIMP, BECAUSE OF A PHYSICAL AILMENT OR SOME MEDICAL MATTER, DON'T GO UP WITH THAT 'BROKE DOWN, BOUNCE, AS IF YOU THINK THIS IS SOME "RUNWAY, TO PRETNED TO BE COOL'.
5. IF YOUR CHILD IS BEING TAUGHT AT THE SCHOOL.. RESPECT THE TEACHERS, THEY ARE NOT THERE FOR YOU TO COME TO THE SCHOOL, TRYING TO "HIT ON THEM', THEY COULD CARE LESS ABOUT YOUR MACHO, WOMAN CHASING INTENTIONS. THEY HAVE A POSITION OF "INTEGRITY', AND THEY DON'T NEED YOU, TO INSULT IT, WITH YOUR ATTEMPTS TO TRYING TO "HIT ON THEM".
6. PRESENT YOURSELF AS A MAN, AND RESPECT YOURSELF AS SOMEONE, WHO HAS A SINCERE INTERST IN YOUR CHILD AND THEIR EDUCATION, AND PRESENT TO THE SCHOOL AND ITS STAFF, THAT YOU ARE SOMEONE WHOM THEY CAN COUN'T ON TO HELP WITH ANY ISSUE THAT ARISES WHICH INVOLVES YOUR CHILD.

IF YOU CAN'T DO THAT.. THEN MAYBE YOUR SHOULD GET AN "ADULT TO GO WITH YOU, WHO CAN KEEP YOU IN CHECK". AND LET THE ADULT DO THE TALKING, BECAUSE YOUR SILENCE JUST MAY GAIN YOU RESPECT, WHICH YOUR "SLANG TALKING" WILL SURELY DESTROY.

FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO GET UPSET AND GET ANGRY.. THEN IF THAT IS YOUR ATTITUDE, THEN GO SOME PLACE AND YELL AT A TREE IN THE PARK, AND GET YOUR FRUSTRATIONS OUT.. AND THEN SIT DOWN SOME PLACE AND THINK... YOU JUST MIGHT BE GLAD YOU DID, BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING THAT INSULTS YOUR OWN INTEGRITY.

TALKING...

IF YOUR CHILD IS GOING TO SCHOOL TO LEARN NEW WORDS, LEARN HOW TO SPEAK NEW WORDS, AND LEARN HOW TO SPELL NEW WORDS,
Don't you think you can be a tremendous help, if you also practice that same thing at home. Don’t make your child feel uncomfortable, because they speak words correctly, just because you want to butcher words at home.

Think about what you say, and how you say it, AT HOME, because if you destroy the language at home, you simply defeat the education which is being taught in the school of how to speak words, and how to utilize words.

Don't make life difficult for your child.. give them a full opportunity, to grow, learn and develop where they can function any place in the world and do so with quality confidence and performance as an individual.