Change is a great thing when it's embraced.

WAKE UP PEOPLE... WAKE UP.. AND CHANGE .. YOU MAKE YOUR SITUATION BAD.. YOU ARE THE CAUSE OF MAKING YOUR NEIGHBORHOODS LOOK LIKE A GHETTO, YOU ARE THE ONE WHO INSULTS YOUR OWN COMMUNITY TO THE POINT THAT YOU WALK AROUND SCARED, AND ON DEFENSE, READY TO ATTACK YOUR own SHADOW.. AND IN THE WAKE OF SUCH, YOU HARM THE ELDERLY,

YOU MAKE THE KIDS SO AFRAID THEY CAN'T GAIN CONFIDENCE IN ANYTHING,

YOU EMBARRASS THE ELDERS WHO WORKED SO HARD FOR SO MANY YEARS AND TOOK SO MUCH ABUSE TO GET FREEDOM..

YOU INSULT IT WITH VIOLENCE, IGNORANCE AND INSULTS TO YOUR OWN APPEARANCE. AND THE LACK OF TRYING TO GET AN EDUCATION..
ROBBING AND KILLING EACH OTHER TO BUY DRUGS, OR FLASH BLING TO LOOK LIKE A BUFFOON WITH ***FOOLS GOLD AND CUBIC ZARCONIA..***

NOTHING BUT A PRETENTIOUS DELUSION.. THAT IS A BUNCH OF WORTHLESS JUNK..
AND YOU HAVE THE LACK OF DIGNITY THAT YOU KILL SOMEONE TO GET FOOLS GOLD.. AND TRINKETS THAT MEAN NOTHING.. YOUR SENSE OF VALUE IS DISTORTED.. AND YOU ARE DESTROYING A GENERATION OF PEOPLE, INSULTING THE ELDERS WHO ARE YOUR PARENTS AND GRAND PARENTS..NEIGHBORS AND THE MAKE UP OF YOUR COMMUNITY...

for the truth many of you don't want to face.. I will tell you.
NO.. it's not the white man as so many like to claim that hold you down ..

you hold yourself down by not presenting yourself and assimilating yourself to bring something to contribute..

As a people.. learn things, develop your talents, and began to realize that there is more than sports and rap music to exhibit talent.. and don't be so easily led by the silliness in the media and the imagery of madness in the video's.. don't be like sheep.. led and manipulated in any direction .. by chasing the image of idiotic bling consumption....

" get pissed off if that what you want to do.. but hopefully in your pissed off attitude.. you take the time to think "

stop embarrassing the community of black people nationwide.. Look about the world.. Blacks are at the bottom of the totem pole around the world.. it's time to stand up, get up , and step up.. and get out of the fools costumes.. and meet society with dignity.. mix within it with integrity, and be a part of it with respectfulness..

for all those who can't figure out how to fit into a social enviornment.. I will repeat..

*****stop embarrassing the community of black people nationwide.. Look about the world.. Blacks are at the bottom of the totem pole around the world.. it's time to stand up, get up , and step up.. and get out of the fools costumes.. and meet society with dignity.. mix within it with integrity, and be a part of it with respectfulness.. *******


it's a shame our senior citizen can't even take a walk in their own neighborhood.. and we got hoodlums talking about " My turf".. and they own nothing, but renting someone else property.. you have no turn becase you own nothing, and then you destroy the value of those who try to own something.. and turn it into a ghetto of destruction, drugs, mayhem and murder..

why would you park a $30,000 automobile with $10,000 of accessories .. in front of a $20,000 house.. and then claim that you can't afford to buy a home.. your sense of value is our of sync..

and in two years that car is worth nothing.. but the house would have gone up in value if you had bought it, respect it and respected the neighborhood it's in... can you see the picture ..

STOP EMBARRASSING THOSE OF US THAT TRY TO DO BETTER, BE BETTER AND WORK WITH SOCIETY OF PEOPLE AND WANT TO HAVE A SAFE NEIGHBORHOOD, WHERE HAPPY KIDS CAN PLAY AND THE ELDERS CAN WALK AND FEEL SAFE AND PROTECTED..





We as a black community must come to let go of a FAD.. the hip hop clothes.. and the sports attire.. has had it's day.. and it has put a stigma on not only the children but the young adults..

Not everyone will be nor is a rapper.. and surely not everyone is a sports player and nor do they need to emulate what they think is a sports player.. We as a society must re-groom ourselves..
Pull up our pants, don't show our underwear, and insure our clothes fit properly, that we don't look like a disproportionate individual. these fad mentality attire serves nothing but to bring individuals disrespect.. so much so, they are out killing each other talking about respect.. when the attire does not command nor warrant the respect an individual feels they may deserve..

People are afraid to tell the truth.. but I will.. the buffoon drama of the rapper style is not conducive to a positive enviornment.. nor the respectful presentation of an individual. and much of this .. clothes hanging off and the thug , gangster image .. is an embarrassment to those in the black community who care to assimilate into the business and professional enviornment of the the community.

why emulate the ghetto mentality and ghetto style that is so adverse to the social enviornment that is progressive. Why are kids buying 100$ tennis shoes that someone is China was paid maybe less than $1.50 in labor cost to produce.. and the sports players are raking in millions, off of people following the fad.. but not one of these millionaires are investing in your community, they have started no corporation that provide you jobs.. and you are not allowed to enter into their arena of life.. and they may or may not give you an autograph if you encounter them in a public place.. But you support the likes of the corporate name on the logo that use the sports player to .. manipulate you out of your money..
when half the children don't have a computer, and only relegate their time to a gaming console.. this is nothing but things that take many black people as a cultural group in a backward direction.. there are many ways you allow yourself to be enslaved.. until you can get wise and understand how not to be a slave.. how to become a contributor into social progress, not just a consumer and a destroyer trying to rip off what is not yours.. have enough respect about yourself.. that you have faith in yourself that you can ear what you want..instead of thinking so little of your self that you can't do it on your own so you steal from another.. that's an insult to yourself by yourself.. all it says is.. I'm not worth a darn so I will steal, I am not capable of doing anything so I will steal.. people who respect themselves do not steal.. nor do they kill.


Back to Image..
It is ok to rally for a sport player when you are watching the game or at the arena.. but why must you spend over priced cost to wear their jersey .. anywhere and everywhere. it robs them of public respectability.

the other element.. is the hooded attire in public social places.. In case you did not know it.. IT LOOKS CRIMINAL, there are times and places for the use of that attire.. many other will avoid and not engage individuals who do such and wear such in public.. they appear as a threat and it appears that they are seeking to hide in plain public view.. that is not the appropriate attire for shopping and various eateries. it convey negativity..

The silliness of a whole generation of people walking around in over-sized white tee shirts.. as if they are in a prison of self imposed slave uniform, they make themselves "out cast'.. there are places in Los Angeles, that have sign posted, " No white Tee Shirts allowed".. . It is very embarrassing for one to see so many blacks involved in the silly and pathetic crimes, destroying neighborhood with hoodlum activity, and parading around in an un-groomed manner, with clothes falling off, and not showing considerate care for proper grooming.. It's an insult to the whole of the black populating.. many people fought hard for the black population to get and be respected.. during the struggles of the 1960's.. and here we are 40 years past that time, and the youth are doing all they can to destroy that public respectability of visual presentation. and making our neighborhood.. an eye sore and people afraid to even consider driving past there.. They have no idea of the damage they do to destroy property values of their parents and some of them may even own homes and allow themselves and or their children to convey an appearance that reduces the equitable value of the property in the community.
Each thggish person who parades thru the neighborhood, trying to be a gangster, criminal, bully and buffoon of sort.. does nothing but destroy the community enviornment, show disrespect to the elders, and have no regard to present a positive image to the children.. Living the gang life as if they are looking for an EXPRESS TRAIN TO PRISION OR TO THE GRAVEYARD. it is far time that people wak up, stop killing each other over drugs, drug money and ego's worn on the shirt sleeve.. talking about respect.. if your respect is so fragile that it can't deal with someone looking at you.. then that only means that you have no respect in your self as yourself.. but in the fear that someone looking at you will see thru the simple natured silliness.. to see that you have no respect for anything or yourself. if you got to walk around like someone carrying a shield made of plastic..

the delusion of cool, the madness of thinking it's hip, and the craziness of delusion that one is bad. you only show your shallowness of respect and regard for life, people, your own family and yourself.

the pants below the waist.. that was started in Prison.. " that was one prisoner's way of advertising their want and desire to be engaged by another man as a sex partner.. it's a symbol of solicitation of homosexual motivations.. it is not fad and fashion.. that was attached to play upon the unsuspecting and the knowledgeable.. the additional element of the over-sized pants was started to conceal weapons.. by the gang element .. during the gun toting craze of the cocaine wars of the 1980's.. and here we are 20+ years later and black people are still caught into a cycle of fad.. unaware that it's time for change.

If you want life to progress and you want to be part of progress.. then you must change with progress. You need not try and find your respect through standing out like a peacock.. but standing up with dignity and integrity and enjoining in the knowledge and wisdom and realizing we live in the age of information.. which requires a learned mind.. and educated mind and one who pursue the education of process.

it's a new day.. will you live in yesterday through tomorrows.. of the days and years to come.

you need to see yourself to change yourself to be respected as yourself by first respecting yourself..

the time of change is NOW

how much do we know , or don't know..??

how much do we know , or don't know..??

and how much are we with inhibitions of mind frames.. that won't let us ponder much.. and investigate the expanse of what is .. about and of the naturality of what and whom and how we are in a life that is.. with unknown elements that.. are more intricate than our minds may have or even want to perceive.. ??



no matter how we twist and turn our minds to want.. then to deny by reason and conditions..
the thirst for passion continues to invade us.. and the denial of it continues to destabilize us.. in a million different ways as we try and justify our lives in how we deny it .. but yet the want of it.. just finds other things to attach itself unto.. and many times just send us off on tangents of a many assorted variations.. and when it's all said and done.. then, there we are facing the passions and their want and need to be engaged and expressed, shared and enjoyed, explored and investigated , creative and hungry.. "STILL FACING US" and then, we .. by some means try and passify it.. we see such being done by women with toys, some chasing girlfriends and etc.. and then using artificial apparatus, but the element of life even those passisfying toys are in the shapes of the what a passion yearns for naturally.. and some loose themselves in the plastic models and the rubber molded toys.. and straining their creativity to assume it feels real.. and some even indulge them with a underlying contempt of purposefully seeking to engage themselves with manufactured toys.. and their ego is anesticized.. by the simply thought of being of some nature of delight.. just to intentionally deny it for share with the natural essence of Males... all..because she can't get the concession and control angles that she wants by the bargain and barter and the mis-use of it to temp and tease and cajole and contain to a manipulative motivational objective.. by use and misuse of it for such reasons.... so she relegates herself to any contrivances that she can imagine.. and she elates herself to .. the fact that she tries to convince herself she does not need a man.. which is a natural denial of whom and what she is as a female in the nature of the life of how God made male and both female.. with a distinct interest in how they connect. and that they can and must connect to facilitate the on going of life..

and to deny that is to deny what is the essence of the life model of what is man and what is woman.

yet people can't even see that .. by such acts and fact. .. of trying to substitute and manipulate and use for contrived motivation.. is the crux of what is the destructive element both in self and of relation.. as the male and female beings.

but nature.. is nature.. and no matter how the delusion nor what encapsulated concept of illusion.. the fact remains that.. the natural element of the male organ and the female organ .. has and will always have a magical vibration that cannot be manufactured nor simulated anywhere near what the natural vibrancy of male and female connectivity can create, inspire and interject thru the realness of what our organs was designed to do for each other..

We were made to do it... plain and simple..

and over time of life the many philosophies that have been put forth.. have distorted people and the confounded by religions taboo attachments.. of every imaginable sort.. and the raw essence of fact remains.. our passions yearn.. and we fail to learn that.. we are by nature sexual beings and the procreational motivation to engage the act dominate more of our lives than we want to accept or even give regard unto...

so we get lost in the look, the want to look various ways and it's all relative to the principal of attraction and how we try and manage and manipulate it.. but that drive is it's own nature of drive.. that no matter how you mask it.. it remains what it is.. the natural drive of the human being.. we even tr5y and attach emotional matter unto it.. to subjugated it, to compress it, to repress it and in a million ways to attack and redress it.. but then it just pops right back up and we vilify ourselves becase of it.. by trying to contain it into moral spectrum's.. and yet our instincts .. just invade us with arousals of many sorts.. and we become baffled as to whom we are.. in our quest of denials.. of this pure nature phenomon of passions and the desires it creates..

till we kill ourselves with .. the manifestation of the physical abnormalities that such self repressive conceptualization create within us.. till our bodies cease to even function and we find what we know as Death.. becase a repressed spirit.. cannot continue to live in a body that by then has become infested with.. the deteriorating effects of repressed passions that has lost itself in diversionary contrivances of sorts..... we know better in the terms of .. sickness. of any and every sort...

We are so unaware of what is the nature of us.. and our dire need to deny it's reality..

Love.. if we try and make it more than it is.. and not let it be all that it is and all that it can be.. we find the more we try and measure it, contain it, and freeze it into some mold or model.. the more we force it to flee from our lives.. becase in essence it's a flow that cannot be contained.. and will break free and in some cases it will die out.. if it's corralled.. into compressive demeanor.

Don't get Lost

Shall you know when to grasp love when love is choosing you.

While they test the powers of allure, and tease the charms of desire.. and dance about the flames of passions. and play hide and seek with temptations..
such of much...about life swiftly blows like a sandstorm about her.. and the path is wiped away.. and she moves about like in the desert sands.. seeking a trail or tracks that may symbolize a road.. and days do come and days do go..

Some find themselves wanting to be many things, but some spend their time choosing no thing.. and such is the magic of a young woman spread about in thin-ness... playing tag with hearts.. dancing about as if one is just sticking pins in a map.. and confused about all the destinations it shows.

Wondering what is love, and looking in all corners of life.. When much of love stand before her.. Somewhat like a tree, but she see these forest.. and overlook the tree.. she desires many things, but wants nothing.. but feels she is in need of something.. they shop.. not just in stores but in the game of people.. Such is called dating..
the allure of being alluring can feed a vanity that denies the much she is.. Whiles she sizes and measures herself against many who move in the crowds about her..

Today seeking popularity, tomorrow trying hard to find reasons to give her clarity.. and such magic of the love that approach her is brushed away.. as if it's a speck on lenses of her rose colored shades.. Time creeps, the make up runs, and painted faces weeps.. some implant, parts not natural to her being, some alter noses.. as they walk but forget to stop and smell the roses..

Today she sees a family and starts to smile, looking at babies but feeling she must wait a while.. she wants and want not a child.. but time moves along all the while.. such is the chase .. within what is said to be fashion.. today.. Tomorrow. What’s in and what's out of style.. seem to drive her and make her moody and sometimes even wild.. Temperament changing like the whims of a child.

When temptations beck and call. she wants over and over to be told you love her.. cause the loudness of temptations call she's knows shes tempted to forgo all ..she wants to be re-assured, as the call is about to make her fall..

love pings and the phones don't ring. The reverse of her sting has caught her in her own thing..
many have gone the path.. of not thinking love through.. a few years past and they say.. they married for the wrong reason, could it really be the reason.. or just an act of emotional treason.

when they leave .. shattered glass on the floor.. the other lawns look greener, the grass is tall .. she watered not the one she had, that's all.. and may not water the new one too... but what you gonna do..if she stays, she's left you too. Waiting for the great escape.. once she set it in her mind to do.

And so goes days and years... and time can be cruel.. for it makes all young women.. Change in view and what they do.. The years do change all .. as it will you too.. so much has consumed so many... it could do the same to you..

Shall you know when to grasp love when love is choosing you.

Some thoughts .. that young women may preview.. As food for thought with hopes they take their time to consider what's in a choice. by what's inside of their heart.. more than their mind