people need to think .. just a bit extra for understanding

our society is filled with situations, the accusation is more damaging than crimes that may not have happened.. especially anything sexually related..

and there are many people who have had their lives messed up and even been imprisioned for 20 yrs to find out the woman lied.. and then they never do anything to the woman..

so women know they have a situation they can persecute a man, and never have any consequence to befall her... because society has this concept of women as some innocent beings.. as people have a "mother complex" trying to assume every woman is like his or her mother..

AND THAT IS NOT THE CASE !!!!!!!!! there is no being on this earth that can be as vicious as a woman... and a woman out for revenge is more dangerous than an atomic bomb.. and they know they can destroy lives and never have to face anything but a mass of people speaking sympathetic words to her.. and some in some situation know they can make a fortune if the media decides to pay them to tell of their activity..

because first society is intrigued about anything remotely related to a woman and sex and thrist to her all about it.. this society is so silly .. it let women take down political figures becase she had sex with him and did not get paid what she wanted.. so she claims she was taken advantage..

but yet this nation says it does not support blackmail... but it's ok for women to do it to men.. after she did not get the pay in the form she expected after she got her thrills in bed..

but if this society is every going to progress.. it first better wake up to the reality of women... and stop giving them a free ticket and telling them that live is providing them a free ticket and that men are her servant who is suppose to pay her way thru life.. it's not the 18th century, where she can't work.. Nor is it right for a woman to come into a mans life as a "flat broke" person .. and a few years later.. want to leave and take what it took him years to build and earn and save... NO.. you only take what you brought , what you earned half of and what you contributed to .. if he has 20 billion dollars, and since he met her, they now have 25 billion.. well she only get's to share half of the 5 billion... minus, the interest his 20 billion earned..

but people better think... I don't think anyone should get married without a prenuptial agreement... because the business of life, and the contractual business of what is a marriage, which requires a "license" is no different in principal.. than a business in principal which "requires a "license"..

and it's because they love each other that they make the business of marriage.. but it's still a licensed contractual agreement.. beyond the love aspect.. so when the love is gone.. the contract remains, and you settle it as a business contract is settled... because it's no longer love that is bonding the agreement.. it becomes nothing more than a licensed agreement that people have chosen to dissolve.. Child care is a given and should be part of the settlement.. but alimony... unless the baby is a new born under 3-4 years old... then Alimony is considered only up to the age of 3-4-5... because at that point the child can go to school.. and during school.. the parent that has the child can work... so there is no need for alimony..
unless of course someone is just feeling generous and want to pay for the mate to sleep with someone else.. and cover bills while they spend their money to entertain their new bed mate... but people paying alimony .. for years and years and some paying it to women who have no kids. WHY??

the mate has declared they don't have a love relationship and chose to dissolve the marrige.. so why should they get an annuity ..

society has to get past this women worshiping mentality, and the being controlled by the whim and dictates of women with the on and off affection and the attacks when that manipulation don't work... and get back to simple people respecting of person to person.. and not one owing the other something for simply relating.. men should be tired of buying assocciation at every turn in his life.. he has to buy dinner to share company and buy this and buy that.. well.. it may be simpler to just buy it on a day rate and be done with it.. rather than to get into an arrangment that cost you for life long past the point that love is gone..

people may find their lives more enriched and respect for each other on a level of equality .. by assuming EQUAL RESPONSIBILITY...

so this whole concept of not holding women responsible.. has many many many underlying ramifications that interject many things that are out of balance with society..

people say its all about love.. but how many women leave men if he looses his job, or if he can't buy her this or that, or how many women get with men they can't stand simply because he is wealthy..

well imagine.. by chance what is "prostituting mentality".. then imagine what that means.. and how that invades relationships.. with the bargain the bedroom activity... based on favors and gifts and trinkets, or if a whim is met or not.. rather than sharing because they have the appreciation to share with their mate... if it was that.. people would not be laying in bed.. after a few years of marriage.. and having sex once a month.... which is two days after payday... and then it's nothing... till the next pay day that has a bit of spendable cash left over...

people need to think... and see reality.. and address... then you may have a chance to establish something that can respect what is love, and have something that has honor to what is love.. and it may just then be able to be a loving relations.. between TWO RESPONSIBLE PEOPLE.. who are held each .. RESPONSIBLE.

and this stuff which .. "HotMess" mention.. will have less of a chance of being a tool used by vengeful women...

( i'm not saying that is what happen between this issue or not because I don't know what the details are)..

but I am saying.. there is a way... society can change to diminish that potential of abuse that is so readily available to women to destroy men by such means.

where is the knowledge base ??

what I'm saying is this stuff keeps happening .. there seems to be no way to pre screen the teachers and so many other things.. so how can the situation be fixed...???

we can't even get all people in this country to believe in God, we saw the Mormon situation of the people when they tracked down that leader, and we see these acts escalating ....

no one is trying to justify the teachers action.. but this certainly is a matter that I think some of the PhD, should be trying to figure out, rather than trying to figure out other stuff..

I saw a show on the Cspan, where they were studying, if babies had an age range where they stick everything they can find in their mouth.. and they even came to a conclusion to say.. that at a certain age babies movenment is unstable..
well hell..!!! every mother in the world knows this as common sense observation... but they have PhD and this kind of silly stuff they waste time studying..

why don't they study this stuff that is really affecting peoples lives...and use their gained knowledge to come up with something that better helps society..with this issue.. the church is not doing it, because they got it happening in the church too... and the law can only deal with those who are caught or exposed.. and the problem continues..

but they can't even study it because society is so inhibited that any time the word sex is mention.. it's a pull out the shotgun, and get the guilotine and publicly vilify and any other level of silliness .. rather than study and investigate and deal with the knowledge base behind what is human activity.

learn more about the youth culture in life

if teachers need students numbers for some form of contact.. maybe they need to have it so they call into to some centralized system and that system connects the call.. where the teachers has to state a specific reason for their act of contacting the student..

other wise.. contact the parents or go thru the principals office, or say what you need to say in class. and if it can't be said in front of the class, they can always ask another teacher to sit in during the conversation..

reality is .. life.. sex is something that has it's own influences in this life, we see it time and time again.. we say.. Oh people should have restraint, but we continue to see .. life just does not work with such order and adherence to such order.... sex and it's allure has been an element that has it's own reality.. it's happen to presidents, presidential candidates, husbands, wives, preist, nuns, ministers and countless other's that it has just never been addressed..

what does movies show, you barely can find a woman over 45 in a regular show as a leading figure, and in prime time TV if they are not trying to look like a sexy teen, they can't even get on the screen in a film project, all movies and shows depict men with women averaging 20 yrs younger, and some time 30 years younger.. this is an ingrained image that is pushed world wide.. and these girls see it.. and everyone else sees it.. and just like the slogan says.. sex sells.. and that's not just in the context of money exchanges.. but value exchanges of every sort.. it's pervasive the world over..

I don't know how society can deal with it, except on individual basis.. because the laws don't stop people until they are caught..or exposed for sex.. and as far as the laws and sex goes.. it even makes a mess out of consenting adults when it come to sex..between two people.. no matter what the situation .. it even invades people who are legal age, by making public scruitny of who's sex whom into a social disgrace, and ignores the fact of everything except they had sex.. ..

this is not advocating these teachers having sex with students.. this is saying that this society promotes sex, with every manner of temp and tease that it can in it's media and the condemn it in actuality.. these kids see this stuff everyday... they see people using sex for anything and everything imaginable... and when these girls start having their monthly cycle like any other female.. they by some logic find it easy to assume that if they have that monthly cycle then they have the same nature of impact on their body, mind and arousal nature as other females.. and the " just say no" is not working for sex nor for drugs.. now how do you fix it.. I have no idea..
maybe the laws may find themselves changing back to what they were 100 years or so ago.. when marriage age was around 15 or 16.. early america and the early world.. by those ages people were marrying .. but the industrialized society came and said.. Oh, no.. we have to groom them for industry longer.. but the fact is .. industrial grooming does not change nature.. nor the human development stages of nature and it's preparing bodies for reproductive realization.. and everything that comes along with one comes along with all.. and that's desire.. and people can't stamp out desire.. Constantine tried in back during the Roman times and nearly ran himself crazy... and even had problems accepting God because he could not rule out or overcome his natural inclination of being with desire.. so much so till he did not declare his stand for God as devotional until he was on his death bed..

so .. this problem is not diminishing it's increasing.. and the more that the media shows that these girls know this stuff.. as soon as they get their period and many know about it before ... even half society jokes that virgins are the rarest thing in the world no days and is very rarely found in 15 and 16 yr olds..

we got scientist and Phd, studying everything, but why are they not studying this ... and coming up with solution or pathways to better deal with this .. why are they not researching history and getting understanding of what was natural in a time before the industrial models impacted the change.. to make marriage not a option for the span as it once was, maybe they may learn something about human nature. because academia is our current day focus.. but there was life before academia and making money became our main focus in life and everything re tapered itself to be based on earning capacity.. the problem with that is... emotions don't require money nor academia.. emotions just exist... in people.. and now we call it a psychosis.. ???????