people seeking .. love, romance and some just seeking

people seeking love.. but love simply is a manner and way of living.. in much of what it is..

but we each so often seek some romantic interlude.. until.. we can't simply just appreciate others and sometimes not even ourselves.. for our constant looking for a romantic consumption..
and the natural romance of appreciation get's stifled.. and a bit and bridle is forced between the teeth.. of both ourselves and others..
life is very peculiar in it's wonderment.. we say hello and share and find that.. life gives us reflections and interactions.. and it will always become what it becomes.. no matter how we try to PRE conceive what we try and make it.. but we so often deny it, it's course of being .. sharing in living... and control it's experiences... yet, it still brings uncontrollable experiences.

something like the simplicity of a transaction.. it unfolds as the agreements unite.. or, don't unite.. it's always that simple..

the minute it reflects something good and the feeling is joyous.. we forget to enjoy it and immediately start trying to figure out how to coral it..
and then it's like a bucking bronco ... that we either fear to ride or find that.. it's not at a point to be tamed into anything.. then we get frustrated and start labeling it.. anything we think we can.. to justify it .. in ways to satisfy our inability to tame it to our liking.. and we forget to like it for what it is and simply engage the sharing of appreciations..

are we such fools that we want to control everything.. rather than let things flow and let ourselves flow in ways that may even discover more of us and more of another than we even may have imagined possible.

how much does it matter.. or does it matter more that we simply share what is our living..

an amazing question that.. can be a challenge to face in the simplicity of .. inquiring..

does it challenge our moral perspective, does it invade our sense of stability.. and then we find.. how unstable our concept of a secure controlled enviornment.. we live.. and have to continually face the fact that we can't control.. the variables.. as we may care to.. but we are forever capable of making adjustments.. if only we will.