Wednesday, August 29, 2007

things matter..

I am addressing these items in hard core reality form.. based on the principal element of how it affect not just blacks but the whole of the city and all people.. I go places whites speak to me all the time, I hold conversation easily with them I don't mind holding the door for them.. I am courteous when I drive and they are very courteous when they drive.. I see black sometimes that have no common courtesy in the public streets of vehicle navigation. I have met very nice whites .. who are helpful.. and I've had some who went out of their way to discuss opportunity and make efforts to utilize their contacts to offer me additional assistance .. just as man to man concern and communication.. I often find myself in situations where many whites come up and start conversations..

I see some white women who appear as if they would like to talk.. but I can see in some they are apprehensive of crossing that color barrier.. becase of the community pressure.. they may face. stuff like that should not exist. it should simple be about male and female.. as persons and if they are attracted to one another then do so and be so.. it's simply life..

we will all live till we die.. the constitution of this country.. gives all people the right to life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness. it did not say.. blacks could not find happiness with whites nor that whites could not find happiness with blacks.. we are simply people.. nothing more than people.. and it's strange becase all people accept the fact that inter-racial kids are jsut visibly with nice features.. could it be that nature made the blending so .. to bring people to the awareness that there is nothing ugly about interracial relating..

there are many whites in this city who have some bled in their cultural background history.. and there are many blacks..that have such too.. look at the wide range of skin tones of the black population.. and between the mixture of whites that has been something that is very prominent to Louisiana.. there have been those who had black in them that passed for white and thru a few generation of connecting with other white..they claim themselves white.. but in their blood line there is mixture.. it may be French, or from some of th mixtures from regions in lower Louisiana..

but the point being.. we all are just people.. and not many of us can trace back 300-400 years.. to know exactly what we are composed of in mixture..

America started as a country of mixed people .. and it's been mixing since the days colonizers set foot on this continent.


white will be very sociable with black.. and blacks will be very sociable with white. but not when you present yourself ungroomed, in clothes that look like a thug or a gangster.. and some comedic rapper in costume.. and they many of them feel very bad to have to ignore people but what choice does this image leave.. they are many black that don't want to deal with other blacks that look that way..

I'm telling it like it is.. becase if whites told it in this blunt form.. people would call them being racist and it would be big commotion..

so I'm black and I'm staying it.. and I'm not a racist.. if anything.. all of us are prejudice.. against "ignorance' and ignorance has not color it's just ignorance..

there are many white about the city.. who have deteriorated and slum like appearance and do un mannered things and have the nerves to come across as if they have some reason to be prejudice as if they are better than another.. I'm sure they are equally embarrassing to many whites who try to take care of their appearance and their neighborhood.. and they end up with other whites that come in and turn their carport to a junk dumping ground.. a bunch of boats and stuff with grass growing around them and have no idea how to fix a back yard so that it appears that it's not abandoned property.. and some areas junk all over the front yard.. kids clothes look dirty and hair uncombed.. going in stores with kids running wild knocking stuff off the shelves leafing clothes on the floor.. some of their business with junk all over the place.. some of the places like on Greenwood road.. at the place where they have the old heavy equipment.. with grass growing all thus the broken part and rust equipment that will never be used ever in life just sitting there. you got north of midway on Mansfield road.. and the place that sells pipes has grass all over the yard.. till it looks like an abandoned filed.. with a bunch of rusty pipes that have been forgotten over time.. and they are running a active business.. it's an insult to the city. and should be to themselves.. but they don't care they just come to work daily and as long as it makes money.. they leave it looking pathetic..


yes.. I'm equal opportunity in addressing the stuff.. and one group can't claim it's just the other group.. became it's both groups.. blacks and white that need to get their act together..

white who live in trailer parks.. just becase you live in a trailer park does not mean you have to let it look like a ghetto on wheels.. clean it up, make a environment for you kids.. not just a bunch of shabby dressed kids looking like a bunch of orphans running amok ..


and on the flip side of things. it makes no sense for some whites to look at blacks who try to keep their things nice.. as if they have contempt at blacks having nice things.. and assuming anyone black that has something nice .. is a drug dealer.. becase not all blacks are drug dealers.. and they may care to consider the many whites who's drug of choice is crystal meth.. and they get that crazed look and will be rowdy and filled with the urge to fight and beat their wife and ignore their kids.

another element is interracial relating.. people should feel free and comfortable to talk to whom they want to talk to.. and not have to be afraid of what their friends and neighbors have to say or what they think..

the only thing important is for people to have a relationship that works for them.. and if they seem happy other should be happy for them..

none of this.. white getting pissed off if a pretty white girls is with a black man.. but they don't care if a plus sized not attractive white woman is with a black man.. and blacks need to relax if a black woman chooses a white man.. be happy that she has a relationship.. and with the wide spread of the homosexual community then just be happy when every you see a heterosexual couple.. if for nothing else they are capable of procreation and giving another life into the world.. thru natural process.


yes all thse element are controversial subject matter..


but why not talk about it .. it exist.. and when we are no longer afraid to talk about it we can then no longer be afraid to make efforts to begin to address and positively progress beyond it.. into a society that we can .. be more appreciate of just people..

we are all going to live and die in and on this earth.. so why don't we try to make it a better place.. but if people just try to pretend this stuff don't exist then how can it come to find elements for change.

young kids black and white should be playing together.. doing things together.. and learning from each other.. and with each other..

they are the future.. and surely we are not trying to build a future of hate.. but togetherness.. then start with the children..

they don't know prejudice and racism.. unless it's taught and the example of such is lived in their homes.. and if you ahve it in your home then you breed it in your kids.

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