" homemade Jam"

" homemade Jam' yes, most of our Jams are home-made, nope not the
Jams you put on a biscuit, but the "jams we find ourselves
entangled in our social realm..


they are home-made.. we have to first learn to recognize this, and once becoming
aware, then we can work to develop our lives thru change..
yes, it's within, and it is of our ability to do so..



step one, no matter how much we appreciate ourselves, be
it for what we own, how our body is built, or our face, or the
value we put on our sex organs, or the value we claim about
our achievements.


if you are sitting around wonder why you don't have
love.. and why there is so many problems in you finding love..
then that problems probably exist deep within you.. Are you with the dare to face such truth..


if you want kindness, then it has to first be given into the
expressive action of being and expressing yourself.


if you want love, then it has to first be given into the expressive
actions of being and expressing yourself..


we have to see individuals, not based on what we can get from
them, but what we can share with them..


we have to see individuals not for how much we get an ego boost
of them appreciating us, but how much joy we can feel to see
things in them to share and express appreciation about
and engage exchanging appreciations expressions.


we have to truly learn that we can't expect everyone
to agree to everything we think and say, and stop looking
for people who claim to agree to everything we say... because
everyone sees the world differently and there may be similarities,
but there is always the individual variation that has it's
differences.. so we may care to stop looking for appeasement,
and assuming that we can only get along with people who are
appeasing, and pretentiously over exaggerated in their
kind presentation... kindness that is real is equally
so truthful, and everything that is truthful is not always
pleasant to digest, because it challenges the values that
we cling to as if we are unable to grow and learn..and become
more aware therefore becoming more wise...in how to live.



homemade jam... is many times created by our ways of thinking,
which is many times, more selfish than considerate of the
self of others.


when we learn what is diversity, and embrace the mind to
regard and appreciate it, we then can see people as individual,
rather than our self measuring based upon ourself, which
influences our first internal impression of them... and
we just might learn to grow, and how to understand others,
thru sharing exchanges.. and seeing different perspective
to things..


we might learn to smile.. more naturally...


and relieve the continual running into "jams"..



all of us probably have many parts of ourselves within this..



do you see any parts of yourself in this ??