inquiring about Love.

I think the narrowness of some peoples' concept of what is love and how is love and how love is... is what causes them more pains than is necessary..

if and as love being everything, then it is composed of that which is sweet to the taste of one's being as well bitter to the taste of one's being..

we fancy situation and mental images of depictions that the mind can draw into associations.. then confound it with moralistic segmentations, and religious formulations.. and then they pit one in measurment against another... then when they encounter something that fits neither they are then in contest or contempt .. and so much effort is spent into the drive to re-assimilate others.. that attitudes are formed and motivations are skewed into all manners of espionage and covert activities.. and this is just in the realm of the individual... which them become mob driven by communities and societies..

and that who's way is better .. take more time and space.. and people result to have the mental little neat boxes of what is love, and what love is.. and how is loving and how loving is conducted..

it's pure madness.. the drive of man to want to know what is right .. and claim himself to be more right than the nature of life and the expanse of what makes up living.. which becomes .. what life is..

people are chasing a romantic fantasy.. and remains delusioned and disillusioned and dis-satisfied with themselves.. by the constrictions .. IMPLIED.. by disposition of others, and community and the over view of what is civil..
and that has a basis of what philosophical MODEL it aspires to conform unto, and morph itself into.

WHEN simplicity is .. you deal with what is before you as it's before you and whom you are with.. and you two find out what works for you and what it is that is satisfying in your engagements.. that does not harm physically another being.... "you have not control" over what other's let affect their mental disposition.

all that is in and of creation has it's elements of beauty and peril.. it matters how one cares to respect what exist for and of it's natural properties..

simple example.. Water will not drown you" but it will allow you to drown yourself if you disrespect it's properties and not know what are you limits of capability, and the failure to make adjustments to support your limitations of natural ability by the creations the mind can devise of how to meet the needed adjustments... if one cares to stay within the water. otherwise.. you get in do what you do within your capabilities and with respect unto wht is water.. and you get out.

as it's said... a pleasure is no longer a pleasure when one does not know how or when to leave it.. that it may remain a pleasure.

so comes the realization of what is moderation.

and man.. must by the forces of lifes truth of it's principals manage his moderations of indulgence in and of "all things"...

then so is love... yielding what is loving.. that it may be enjoyed.. and it's bitter parts may be encompassed and various levels of tolerance will govern how it's ingested or enteracted with, upon and thru.