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Do you know what you want ???

it's simple .. if you know what you want... it may be simple, to actually have it..


in the end result behind it all..

we all are just people... new one's are born everyday and some will die everyday.. and the end result will be the same.. " we are just people""

you either want to talk and share time and maybe sex and do stuff together , or you don't" it will never be any more simple than that.. but you certainly can make it more complex than that.. and the end result will be the same thing.. " we are just people" and ..you either want to talk and share time and maybe sex and do stuff together , or you don't"

that's all it's going to be .. now you can make it enjoyable or make it miserable.. and the end is still the same..

you either want to talk and share time and maybe sex and do stuff together , or you don't"


I'd like those who read this to.. "" go to a Senior Citizen Complex "", or a "Nursing Home" and see the many many sad and the many many love starved faces, and the people who are plain and simple "alone" .. and you may understand this in greater perspective..

you may even began to see how simple life is and how much it means just to share ... and you will understand..


Relating is very simple... if we allow it to be so.
"you either want to talk and share time and maybe sex and do stuff together , or you don't" .. but trying to own and control things and others.. will mostly leave you... "alone"
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I see a lot of pretty faced women.. some twist and show their legs some show their butt some show their breast..

most of them have nice appendages.. but faces that look nice.. and it's no doubt that someone has invited them out and someone has made overtures to them..

what do they want?? is it just to be seen.. the tease of being tempting and the elation of being tauntingly arousing... is that their point of satisfaction??

if you want someone as some say.. why are you advertising your butt? or trying to get as much upper thigh to show as possible, and recently one just has a picture of her lower body..

Are women just nuts.. ?? or do they want to promote sex but lie about when asked about it?

are they really just interested in the popularity of seeing how many they can attract??

it's really something of some of these variables becase they are not looking for relationship to get to know or be known by anyone.. they present themselves more as exhibitionist than anything else>>

I notice most of them seem to play on being pretty till it wears off or wears old, then they talk about they can't find this or that??

do you honestly think any of them can be trusted to be honest about anything ??

is there such a thing as a honest woman??
or is it really they don't know what they want except what tempts them in the next minute ??

how much of what a woman says do you actually believe ?? and how much do you actually trust?

you don't have to answer any of these questions here.. but it's more realism in these questions than not.. because there are many guys that seem not to hold interest after a few exchanges and and many of the girls who fade out after a few exchanges...

and some of these people who claim undying friendship.. how many of the women actually remain such friends after you tell her no to a few things or you actually disagree about some of the stuff you agree to just to keep her from running off in the wind ??

do you think Pu___y is over-rated ?

do men have some illusion that a woman with bigger breast has more pleasure than a woman with smaller breast ?? so.. what is the big allure about breast ?? are they over-rated ??
are you really with any thought that sex is not the basis of many of these poses and advertisements of many of these women?
how many of these women do you think probably double as sex market workers outside of this site ??

maybe some of these question can get people past the .."kiss her butt mindset" so many indulge just to get her to be a social person.. because she is going to trip out one way or the other with her expectations and her presumptions of how and what she thinks you should change in order for her to continue in any kind of an association..

so what are you willing to give up, or put up with and how much will you rely on her changing truths ?? Ok... so what is it you think you will get for the relationship.. and how long do you think you will get it ??


now honestly do you think any women under 27 will be able to have a relationship that has solidity and honesty ??

you might really want to know some of this stuff before you hang your heart on a kite string.. and send it flying in the air.

why people have relationship problems.. is simple..

"Everybody wants to , dictate, regulate and moderate the association"..

just go do stuff together talk about stuff and if you want to bed each other down.. do that too..

have fun and stop trying to control stuff.

stop trying to manipulate stuff and play psyche games on each other..

and most of all stop lying to yourself.. "you don't control anyone .. except yourself and you will never as long as you live .. own anyone.!!!!

if people ever get that simplicity in the brain.. they may find that they can actually enjoy other people.. and maybe even enjoy themselves..

and most certain for women.. Stop selling sex.. for anything and everything you can imagine to try and manipulate with it.. becase the only thing you ultimately manipulate is yourself..

and basically drive yourself to screwing toys,, and lying about how virtuous you are and how non sexual you are.. while at the same time you are burning up every kind of toy imaginable.. and sitting back thinking that makes you better than someone else..

that thing between your leg's result to make more a fool of you than it does of anyone else.. and it will never make you 'queen of the world" as you imagine.

Every woman walking has one.. and one is just as good as the other..

the only thing that makes a difference is the one's who share it with and through appreciation to share..
anything else .. makes it less..

it's very difficult for women to get past the delusion that it will catch hold and control someone.. and many women make themselves nuts' trying to make it do that.

it's just a body organ.. and the trip is.. there is not a woman who has one .. that does anything different than yours... and yours does nothing different than any other womans.

now if you swallow that pill of reality.. you might find life to be something enjoyable and you may just come to understand and learn how to actually appreciate the nature of a man as a human being.

rather than as soon as he say's hello.. you mind start spinning of what kind of stupidity you can create to boost your ego and give you some delusion that you can go into bargain mode.. and act like a total fool.. with this.. yo yo mind of trying to play hard to get.. running yourself stupid trying to figure out how to make someone beg for something you can't wait to share in some manner anyway..

then when it comes time to share.. you are too busy using it trying to secure some guarantee of some whimsical devotion.. that you don't even want.. but you want the delusion that you have the power to secure it.. and then spend the next few weeks testing to see if you got it..

and then if he does give you a commitment.. you immediately start into your trying to remold and re shape his life around yourself... and sharing just went out the window and your cycle of self torment begins in a new phase.. continually trying to delude yourself that you got him under control.. when all you've done is put your own life in a cycle of psyche games looking for the next psyche game.. until you fully screw up the association.

that's why there are some many older women .. sitting on their ass.. talking about how they want a honest man.. hell they been dishonest most of their lives is why they don't have one and can't get one .. now they get older and they still want to control something and dictate how someone else is suppose to be.. living on vain expectations sitting alone .. too stupid to reach out and even go to a movie, invite a man to dinner, get up and go do stuff.. thinking if they sit on their ass and deny their own desire that it makes her some beacon of virtue.. when really it makes her just a life fool living in self denial..

Ignorance dominate the landscape in more ways than not.

that's why we got a world of love starved people miserable and trying to find every diversion they can to occupy their time..

love ain't a damn thing but the result of loving.. and loving is living and sharing .. sharing and living.. and there is no other way to get love.

many people don't know what they want .. and life made it so natural to have but we are so stupid as people.. we outsmart ourselves out of having it.. by thinking we are more than we are..

We are simply people.... nothing you do.. will ever make you God.. so you can forget that.!!!

put a smile on your face and go out and appreciate something and maybe someone can and will appreciate you... if you don't turn it into some stupid ego vain game of self adulations.. of stupidity..