young or just the fact we all move thru learning life

people have a twisted concept of life .. they think being young is all about going to the mall and shopping and meting on the date-o-rama cycle.. and learning 50 ways to be manipulative and egotistical and arrogantly playing with emotions and people..

that's what people push their kids to do.. telling them constantly how they are not capable of responsibility.. which is a crock of S___ !! that's why we got so many damaged teenagers now.. who are drugged out and lost as to everything.. becase .. people want to keep them kids like they are some ken and barbie doll.. that they can pretend they are not getting older.. but the fact is.. think of how life was.. and you may learn how life is..

100 years ago they were considered marriage and able to handle responsibilities.. the only thing that changed is .. the world got lost in trying to acquire gadgetry and shopping malls sprang up and we got some stupid idea of extending play time for young people.. and they have been rebelling for ages asking to be treated and first and foremost given the respect and regard of making decision and being allowed as anyone else in life to make mistakes and not be condemned for life..

people have not changed in the basic of what is people.. we just have more crap that we think is more important than being a person. and we resent our lifes so much we don't want them to grow up becase we wish we had played more games and flaunted around doing nothing..

We are one walking contradiction.. and then we try and impose that upon them.. after 12-13 your kids is not a baby anyomore.. and the quicker you accept that and see them as a young person.. and reality says you had best realize they are young people by 14 who can bring forth life.. and there is nothing you can do to change the fact of nature that makes that true. so stop trying to keep them being a kid that you can spoil and boost your ego by telling people ""LOOOK WHAT i GAVE MY KID" becase that's all it amounts too.. is parents getting an ego lift off of saying "look at me, SEE i GAVE MY KIDS THIS AND THEY DON'T HAVE TO WORK OR EVEN ACT OR BE RESPONSIBLE"..


we as people can't even see the folley of ourselves for being egotistically elated about our own ignorgance.